Choices
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I have three options...
1) Tell my pastor dad I'm gay and have my entire family reject me forever
2) Live a lie my whole life and want it all to end
3) Or end the little that I have now.
Category Betrayal
Submitted 10-20-2007 21:35
Visited 591 times. 97.50 Compelling Rating (rated 4 times) 97.50 Sincerity Rating (rated 4 times)
advice from Guest898623 | 11-05-2007 14:51 | E : 6 | S : 1
OR save up money for a year, get yourself a place to stay, tell your parents you're gay, move out on your own, join a support group, find a mentor and live the beautiful life you were truly meant to live. It is hard to not have the love of the ones we want but it is not the only love that exists. Don't turn your back on the love of those who are out there waiting to offer you true unconditional acceptance.
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advice from Guest1558285 | 12-10-2007 05:26 | E : 2 | S : 0
4) neither...
I agree with the previous. u can def save up some money and move out on ur own. ur family's love should far outweigh ur lifestyle and if they truly love you, u will have that support...BUT u don't have to live in fear. acceptance from other people isn't supposed to be 100%. that's what makes this journey called life so interesting...please don't choose option 3
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advice from Guest1784091 | 12-17-2007 08:37 | E : 2 | S : 0
I agreewith the previous 2 and maybe they will accept you the way you are and you are over thinking it. when I came out to my mom all she said was "that's it... your not doing drugs, you don't have some incurable disease, your gay. Well is she coming to thanksgiving." This came froma woman who went to catholic school from k-12. Whatever you do do not live a lie.
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advice from Guest1931728 | 12-30-2007 20:37 | E : 1 | S : 0
If you're dad is a Christian pastor, than any true man of God knows that Jesus is the only judge. I know it's easier said than done but I say tell your family, don't apologize for who you are, and continue your walk with God no matter what happens. No matter how bad life gets, the moments you make the best of is worth living for :o)
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advice from Guest1859867 | 01-14-2008 02:06 | E : 1 | S : 0
I say. Save your money and then BUCK and live in a random city. Basicly disappear and start a new life.
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advice from Guest2077208 | 01-15-2008 07:04 | E : 1 | S : 0
I have a friend who was in a similar position. They will be mad, shocked, disappointed and even embarrassed. But trust me at the end of the day they will come around. Family is family, they will love you regardless. It does not change the person you are, just the sex you coose to be with!
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advice from Guest2091418 | 01-16-2008 18:13 | E : 1 | S : 0
If he really is a man of God, you'd think he would accept the way you are and love you.
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