I am no longer attracted to my fiance
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I love my fiance and I know he loves me to death, however I am not physically attracted to him at all anymore. He still smokes after promising me time and again he would quit(We met online and I said No smokers, he lied on his profile and then told me he was quitting) Anyway his teeth are yellow from the smoking and Coke drinking and it has also caused him to have a receding hairline and wrinkles. Not to mention that he doesnt bathe enough and sweats alot in his sleep. I feel horrible, but I sometimes find him repulsive, but I know he will be such a devoted husband and someday father. HELP!
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Submitted 11-04-2007 03:15
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advice from Guest1867982 | 12-23-2007 23:41 | E : 2 | S : 0
be totally honest with him. tell him that his habits turn you off. if he still doesn't change than maybe he doesn't love you like you think he does.
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advice from Guest2235865 | 02-01-2008 23:29 | E : 1 | S : 0
it wont change when you get married.
it will become more convient and comfortable.
you need to tell him, he needs to stop.
or you need to leave.
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advice from Guest1556304 | 11-28-2007 03:37 | E : 1 | S : 1
girl, break up with him! he grosses you out and you're not even married yet?......problem!
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advice from Guest1697450 | 12-09-2007 18:20 | E : 0 | S : 0
Leave him, you deserve to be happy and he deserves to be loved. You're not doing either one of you any favours. You should find someone who is everything you like about him and that you are not turned off by. That way he can find someone who likes him as he is, or decide to change.
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advice from Guest2151572 | 01-23-2008 04:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am having a similar problem..
Except we are not engaged yet, but we live together. And he's not a smoker.
He's gained a significant amount of weight in the past 3 years we've dated and HE ALWAYS plays video games. I swear he spends more time playing games than with me. He never wants to go out, have fun, even leave the apartment. It is really depressing.
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advice from Guest1983147 | 01-06-2008 02:36 | E : 0 | S : 1
If the fit isn't right now it won't be right later.
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advice from Guest2052540 | 01-12-2008 16:23 | E : 0 | S : 2
if you love him, and he really loves you too just throw him in the shower and go at it in there, he gets satisfied and so you do. then spray him with perfume and get on with your happy life together =]
crest whitestrips are a miracle i know that for a fact ;) good luck
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