I should have done more
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I was raped over a year ago. He blackmailed me (with other information) not to tell anyone, but he told everyone that we had sex, and everyone called me a whore.
His best friend saw one day, he stopped calling me a whore but never defended me. It went on for a month of me getting raped, and finally it ended.
They still call me a whore, and I don't talk to the guy any more, but won't tell because I'm still scared.
I feel like it's my fault at times, that I lead him on, and because it wasn't as violent as a rape as you see on t.v., or in stories, I feel like I was just a slut. He never hit me, he just held me down and threatened me. I was so weak, and I don't know what to do, I still feel horrible about it all.
Category Disappointed
Submitted 08-27-2007 21:37
Visited 399 times. 85.00 Compelling Rating (rated 2 times) 75.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 2 times)
advice from Guest838689 | 08-31-2007 05:46 | E : 1 | S : 0
get help. look up "rape hotline" or "abuse hotline", or go to the police. this is NOT your fault and the person who did this to you does NOT deserve to get away with it. At lease if you can't do it for yourself, turn him in to protect whoever his next victim might be. Good luck, and stay strong.
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advice from Guest848018 | 09-01-2007 18:51 | E : 0 | S : 0
he will prey on your fear, don't show it, he will prey on your small nature, be tall. you have had enough of this, prison to fear and guilt. you know who you are and you will not stand for anything else. dig deep and you will be alright.
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advice from Guest873806 | 09-08-2007 09:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
this wasn't your fault, this man saw how you couldn't ahndle confrontation and took advantage, just because you don't scream on t6he outside doesn't mean its noit on the inside. You deserve to get help. I'm sorry this had to happen to you.
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advice from Guest812863 | 08-30-2007 20:01 | E : 0 | S : 2
ya
u shoulda dun mor
u shouldnt let guys like that so s___ to u or let ppl call u a w____ for it
and now u dont tlk 2 him so u should come out with this secret a little mor
at least ur postin it up on here tho so i guess thats a step
if ppl still call u a w____ they should stop it was over a year ago even if they do still think its sex and its none of there bizness really
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