Mother chose him
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My mom threatened to kill me if her boyfriend left her, because it would be my fault.
I admit I never liked him, and I told this to her that night. She told me I was wrong. I was lying. Making it up.
I knew she loved him more.
Category Didn't Want To Know - But I Do
Submitted 10-30-2007 07:17
Visited 2666 times. 87.14 Compelling Rating (rated 7 times) 98.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 5 times)
advice from Guest1430360 | 11-17-2007 22:35 | E : 2 | S : 0
I'm so sorry. She's so very wrong. You're worth more than he is, a hundred million times more, and someday she will know that. Please be safe. She was and is so very, very wrong.
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advice from Guest1510513 | 11-20-2007 20:03 | E : 2 | S : 0
this is so wrong
none of it is your fault
so dont think any of it is
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advice from Guest1060015 | 11-19-2007 14:38 | E : 1 | S : 0
If he abused you tell the school system. A mother should never pick a man over her child. These are her issues of worthlessness not yours.
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advice from Guest1562935 | 11-26-2007 10:17 | E : 1 | S : 0
You haven't been specific and said if he molested you or not. If he did, please follow the advice of guet #1060015 and at least tell someone in the school system. Better still call the damn cops, and have his a__ locked up.
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advice from Guest1969248 | 01-04-2008 15:32 | E : 1 | S : 0
Move out. If you are too young, Call child services. If she's threatening you you need to leave. But I know this is advice you wont take. I didnt. Its easy to know what to do and very very hard to do it
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advice from Guest1478166 | 11-17-2007 16:37 | E : 0 | S : 0
That's horrible. I would get out of there. I don't know how old you are, but I would get some help. Call child protective services or at least tell a trusted adult. I'm so sorry.
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advice from Guest898623 | 11-17-2007 18:11 | E : 0 | S : 0
Your mom's priorities are skewed. Mine too. That's why I deem her 'the woman who gave birth to me' rather than 'mom'.
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advice from Guest1667089 | 12-05-2007 21:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
i feel really bad for you
bad things always happen to good people
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advice from Guest2024119 | 01-09-2008 22:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
BABY ITS NOT YOUR FALT,PLEASE LET SOMEONE KNOW SHE THREATENED YOU SOMEONE THAT KNOW YOU TOO BOTH. I HOPE SHE COME TO HER SENCES AND START ACT LIKE A MOTHER. GOD BLESS BABY.
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advice from Guest2190776 | 01-27-2008 21:11 | E : 0 | S : 0
I sympathize. My mom always chose d____ over her children. My advice - do everything to can to get out safely. Work 2 jobs, live with a roommate, sacrifice to be self-sufficent. I haven't spoken to her in nearly 10 years. It was the best decision I ever made.
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advice from Guest2227170 | 01-31-2008 21:27 | E : 0 | S : 0
My mum kicked me out of home, because my step dad told her that it was my fault that he left her and if she kicked me out and lost contact with me he'd come back. He hasn't come back and it's been a year. Not as bad as yours but in the same boat. I hate my step dad also.
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advice from Guest2257129 | 02-04-2008 15:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
She was very upset when I moved to the other side of the country with my boyfriend within 2 weeks of graduating High School.
She doesn't even remember it happening. I was telling my boyfriend about it one day, very upset, and she overheard. She didn't remember and says that I must have mixed up what she said and that if it bothered me so much I should have talked to her about it so it could be 'resolved'.
Her boyfriend never touched me inappropriately, he just had anger issues that included a lot of yelling. If I did not clean the entire house and he came home he'd yell at me for it. Then act as if nothing happened and try to be all nice and give me a hug and ask me to make him food. I wouldn't have any of it, still upset, but I made the food and handed it to him 'disrespectfully' and he got pissed. Fumed to my mom until she came downstairs all kinds of upset. She informed me that if he left her it would be all my fault and that if he did leave her she'd kill me.
~Updated for clarity and new events~
Thank you all for the support.
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