Sexual wants
QuickCode : peter
I often think my husband isn't interested in me sexually. He is bi-sexual as am I and I am worried he is cheating on me with other men because he doesn't want to have sex with me, nor do the things I like. I go down on him, but he never does on me, he makes it feel like a chore to be with me and is always tired. I have asked him, and told him if he wants to be with a guy, he can tell me, I'll understand.
Maybe I am too fat, too ugly. I often cry to myself wondering on all this. I have even suggested we get adventourous, but he doesn't want to even look at that. I found a link on his computer the other day to a meet site, and he used to get sms's from an unknown source asking to meet up, when I asked him, he said it was an ex. Am I paranoid? What can I do? Why doesn't he desire me?
Category General Confession
Submitted 01-06-2008 06:18
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advice from Guest2569210 | 03-09-2008 01:20 | E : 1 | S : 0
because you're available - as a wife. MAke yourself unavailable for him, generally people want what they can't have. 2. If you're overweight, WORK OUT for YOU (not him). Your own inhibitions might be translating into your behavior, which might be a turn off. THe hottest victoria's secret model might be worried about her body and it will impact her boyfriend's desire, meanwhile a 500 woman (extreme example for its own sake) will be gettin it on every night because she's hot and she knows it. DO something to make yourself feel confident.
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