Single Mother and Baby
QuickCode : baby, young, pregnant, lesbian, abortion
I've been physically and mentally ready for a baby of my own since I was 12. The only thing stopping me from getting myself pregnant is the fact that I have no money/job and the fact that I'm a closet lesbian to most. I WATCHED one of my friends have a baby then willingly give him away, was in the office when one had an abortion, and two others have a baby, one of them with another on the way and I am soooo jealous. Now that I'm almost 19 and looking for a job, I think about having sex and raising the baby on my own... Is that selfish? I really can't help how I feel...
Category General Confession
Submitted 11-12-2007 06:26
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advice from Guest1558579 | 12-07-2007 15:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
It is not selfish to want to become a mom. You just should wait until you are at a place in your life that you can fully support you and the child. You don't want to bring a child in financial hardship that wouldn't be if you waited a few years. Just wait until you have a job, a place to live, and some money in the bank. That way you can be the best mommy you can be.
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advice from Guest1691068 | 12-07-2007 19:39 | E : 0 | S : 0
you have lots of time on your hands just wait for the right guy and you will get ur baby sooner or later dont rush things
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advice from Guest2711901 | 12-07-2007 23:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
Hahahah sorry sweetie..
You have NO CLUE what it takes to raise a child. You think you just finding a job is going to solve things?
man i wish you could keep an infant for a week.
I had my baby girl when i was eighteen and you really have no clue what youre doing.
USE YOUR BRAIN.
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advice from Guest3285745 | 12-08-2007 12:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
just be careful who you have sex with and make sure they know you don't want a lasting relationship
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advice from Guest2166274 | 01-25-2008 05:58 | E : 0 | S : 0
No CHILD can be 'mentally ready' to have a baby at age 12, sorry.
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