There's this really sweet guy who wants to date me. And if he was anyone else, I'd be dying to date him too. But instead of dating him, I pretend like I don't know how he feels about me so that maybe he'll just give up. I'm so ashamed of the reason that I don't want to date him. He was born with a cleft palate, and I can't stand to hear his voice. I hate that I'm being so superficial about it...he's a great guy, I just can't get past his voice.