This sucks

I am in love with two women, and they are both in love with me. Both of them have told me I need to choose. This sucks.
Category Romance

advice from Guest2108338 | 01-18-2008 14:31 | E : 3 | S : 0
stop trying to show off how shallow you are. they should both dump you for your disloyalty
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advice from Guest1141289 | 10-13-2007 02:41 | E : 1 | S : 0
I wasn't chosen...he married her, I married another, they had a kid, now she's left him for her ex-bf, we had an affair. That's just one of the ways you might end up. Be sure you know who is the best for life and who is the best for right now.

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advice from Guest1267049 | 10-28-2007 07:16 | E : 1 | S : 0
Pick neither, that way, everyone is equally hurt and noone is left out, its for the better.

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advice from Guest1422802 | 11-21-2007 05:32 | E : 1 | S : 0
youre not lucky... i was also one of those girls once, and i was the chosen one. i was thankful for it everyday... but i never forgot about the pain i caused the other girl. i was chosen because i made him happy. who makes you happy? actually, really, honestly happy?
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advice from Guest939312 | 12-24-2007 10:10 | E : 1 | S : 0
If this is who I think it is, you know how it ended, don't you?
If it isn't...whatever you do, don't cheat, if you're with one of them. I was the 'other' girl. He was an a______.
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advice from Guest2191471 | 01-27-2008 23:01 | E : 1 | S : 0
True love cannot be divided, I question whether its love you feel for them, or you just love the feeling of beign loved by two different people. Be empathetic, the truth hurts and so does a broken heart
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advice from Guest2191471 | 01-27-2008 23:02 | E : 1 | S : 0
True love cannot be divided, I question whether its love you feel for them, or you just love the feeling of beign loved by two different people. Be empathetic, the truth hurts and so does a broken heart
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advice from Guest1058588 | 10-01-2007 08:35 | E : 1 | S : 1
I feel for you, I was one of the women who loved the guy once... It dose suck, I wasn't the chosen girl either, no matter what you do someones going to get hurt, but its gotta be done! Good luck
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advice from Guest1084894 | 10-06-2007 07:12 | E : 2 | S : 2
It's obvious one has to been hurt. And also, they both CAN'T possibly make you feel the same way. Well, you love them but in what way? Like one's sexy and cool or the other one is nice and shy.
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advice from Guest2057450 | 01-13-2008 04:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am in a similar situation right now. I'm the other woman and he is married. I know it sounds stupid but he tells he feels the same way and if he met me before he got married I would be the one in his life. I actually do believe him as ridiculous as that sounds. I usually don't have alot of confidence in myself in that way and for some reason I feel like it's meant to be..
It all comes down to who rocks your world. Who do you wake up thinking about. Who makes you smile when they walk into a room. Life is too short not to be with someone that makes your heart race. There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone.
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advice from Guest2072238 | 01-14-2008 19:31 | E : 0 | S : 0
Yeah it does.

I say go to Vegas.
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advice from Guest2155163 | 01-23-2008 17:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
I was in the same position back in college. Fortunately, it was the 60's, and they were best friends. So for quite awhile, we all just loved one another. I eventually ended up marrying one, and the other married someone else too quickly on the rebound. My wife and I both felt badly because we both loved her, too. But we were always just somehow closer to each other than either of us was to her. Our married life together was great, but hers sucked. I still feel bad about it. Vicki, I hope you're happy now, wherever you are.
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advice from Guest2129891 | 02-04-2008 23:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
You're going to end up with neither of them.
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advice from Guest2275126 | 02-06-2008 14:31 | E : 0 | S : 0
dogggggg, i totallt have been on both sides of that.

the best thing i can tell you to do,
is picture who you can spend the rest of your life with.

the other one will probably end up hating you...
but it'll only hurt more if you dont make a move and they both end up leaving you.
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advice from Guest2336172 | 02-13-2008 12:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
The only man I ever loved chose her over me. Then with his impending divorce, he came back, and chose me, and I accepted it. But then he up and left me, not for her, but for another. If I were you, I'd make a choice I know I could stick to, or to simply choose neither and walk away from the whole thing.
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advice from Guest2411372 | 02-20-2008 21:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
i would never be one of those two girls because the person i love loves only me and only has to love me and not someone else.i think they deserve to be treated better so do them a favor and say no to both of them.put yourself in their place.how would you feel? its your fault for leading them both on.but in the end i cant judge you because im not in your place. but decided carefully.think not only of yourself but of them too.
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advice from Guest1401017 | 11-11-2007 07:09 | E : 0 | S : 1
lucky
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advice from Guest1580835 | 11-28-2007 01:35 | E : 1 | S : 2
I think a lot of people are not monogomous and that a lot of people want to be with multiple people but they don't act on it because they think it's taboo. Well I think it shouldn't be, the more love the better.
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advice from Guest1851387 | 12-22-2007 02:31 | E : 0 | S : 1
foget about both of them or choose the one u tink really suits u and really luv!
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advice from Guest2021520 | 01-09-2008 14:27 | E : 0 | S : 1
Pick the one you would want to date even if you couldn't have sex. If that is too close to call take a survey of your friends and see which one they choose. If it is still split pick the one that encourages you to have guys night out. She is the keeper.
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advice from Guest2069215 | 01-14-2008 11:41 | E : 0 | S : 1
Polyamory.
Try it.
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advice from Guest2127773 | 01-20-2008 17:43 | E : 0 | S : 1
You need to sit down for one hour. Take everyone out of the picture and write down what your dreams are, and what you want in your life. When you know where your journey is taking you, you will find that one of these women shares your dreams and is heading the same way and one of them is not. You can love your friends forever, but there is one person God intended you to be with. Ask him or the universe or whatever to show you and I promise the answer will come.
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advice from Guest1165735 | 10-16-2007 18:05 | E : 1 | S : 3
You're a liar. Hahaha joking but really. Get over it, you're in a good positon.

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