A Painful Love

I love him so much it hurts. We went out and the whole time he said he loved me and I didn't feel it. I cheated on him and now we're not going out I realise how much I miss him and how much I love him. He says he still loves me and he could spend the rest of his life with me but he won't take me back. His reasons change every day. I'm waiting until he runs out of reasons and hoping he'll then consider taking me back. I know I made mistakes but I've changed. I know he needs to be able to trust me again but since I've changed I haven't given him reason not to. I just don't know how long I'm supposed to wait for him to make up his mind.
Category Romance

advice from Guest809723 | 10-12-2007 11:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
hey, i know how u feel, i told my boyf i kissed sum1 tho i was drunk and later found out i didnt. He still dusnt beleive be and 4 this reason he says he can never trust me or get back. It physically hurts me and i go over and over it but it doesnt help, jus makes u feel worse. Maybe giv him space to think

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advice from Guest1197016 | 10-20-2007 20:30 | E : 0 | S : 0
Try being friends without pushing for a romantic and physical relationship, he isn't going to forgive you immediately and try to move on. You betrayed him in a way most people find unforgivable and you have to realize that it may never happen for you again with him. If he is as incredible as you think he is then at least you will have an amazing friend. Just don't expect a relationship with someone you've betrayed.
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