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After 8 years of Marriage I still love my ex

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I settled down when I was in my early 20's. I have a loving wife and 2 children, but I am not passionate about my wife.

I still love my ex-girlfriend, reason why I moved back to the U.S. I am afraid that if I see her again, I will leave with her.

Category Romance

Submitted 04-28-2007 08:30
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advice from Guest2974914 | 04-15-2008 18:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
Have you talked to your ex about how you feel? I'm going through something similar, though I ruled out marriage before knowing what could have been with him. I'm about to ask him when next I see him how he feels, tell him how I feel. It's better to know. Don't hurt your kids, I know you don't want to hurt your wife, but looking into someone's eyes when they say I love you, and seeing something else, hurts more tahn if you told her.
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advice from Guest2975180 | 04-15-2008 19:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
Wow, this is hard. I feel bad for your wife and for you who has been thinking about this ex for so long. You shouldn't have married if you felt that way. WHat happened with your ex?? Good luck and stay strong. Think about all the good things you have with your wife and imagine how it would be not to have her in your life. If you are unhappy with her, then try to be happy with her and work together.
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advice from Guest3063773 | 05-04-2007 09:59 | E : 0 | S : 2
you should be madly in love to get married. maybe your ex isnt the one for you nor is your wife..?

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