Am I Broken

I'm 18 and I've never been kissed.
You have no idea how ugly that makes me feel.
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advice from Guest3040035 | 05-01-2007 05:44 | E : 6 | S : 0
you are NOT ugle becuz u havent been kissed. I waited until i was 18 because i CHOSE to. As a matter of fact, i bragged about my virgin lips. Every girls 1st kiss should be a movie moment so dont settle for less. Trust me, guys LOVE an innocent girl so use it to your advantage!

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advice from Guest3109536 | 05-10-2007 21:45 | E : 5 | S : 0
I just turned 20 last Friday. And I have never been kissed. I keep hoping and praying that someone special will come along. But, I don't think it will ever happen for me.

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advice from Guest1216025 | 04-14-2007 11:19 | E : 4 | S : 0
I havent either and im 20! Its surprised me how so many people are in the same boat, but taking advice from other people, im just going to leave it and enjoy living, itll happen in time when its meant to be.

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advice from Guest2863403 | 04-14-2007 12:10 | E : 4 | S : 0
Sweetie, I'd bet you're gorgeous. I mean, look the courage it took to post this! I'm far too ashamed of my own, and the fact that you're willing to tell other people about it is beautiful on it's own.

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advice from Guest3142792 | 05-19-2007 12:49 | E : 3 | S : 0
There are gorgeous super model looking girls that haven't been kissed. There are disgusting girls that have. It's all relative. You shouldn't feel ugly because you haven't kissed someone - you should feel proud that you're not a slut.
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advice from Guest3184907 | 05-30-2007 20:19 | E : 3 | S : 0
i just lost my virginity, and im 20. listen...it really isn't that serious, and its not all that its cracked up to be. i thought it would never happen, and it did. now im regreting it. i thought it would be some wonderful everlasting lifechanging experience. it wasn't.
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advice from Guest3202397 | 06-04-2007 22:02 | E : 3 | S : 0
hey, I'm in the same boat. Don't worry, one day someone made JUST FOR US is going to come along and it'll be perfect.
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advice from Guest2813457 | 06-30-2007 15:41 | E : 3 | S : 0
i used to think that fact i was 16 and never been kissed was a sign that i was ugly.

all my friends around me were talking about making out with there boyfriends, nad what not, and i had nothing to say.

but, when my first kiss happened, it topped any of my friends first kiss stories. because it was with a guy that i love, and it was such a movie moment.

i believe that the girls who are older when they first kiss are the ones destined to have a better one.

and theres no way you are ugly. I bet you your amazing. And you have the courage to post up here. which makes you pretty inside.
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advice from Guest3042912 | 05-01-2007 11:53 | E : 2 | S : 0
well my first kiss was with a random ugly person in an underage club when I was 14. He gave me a coldsore.

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advice from Guest2993605 | 05-12-2007 03:52 | E : 2 | S : 0
I'm 18 and I've only kissed 4 guys including my current boyfriend. I kissed the first when I was 16, it scared the living CRAP out of me, I was just gonna give dude a peck and he pounced in like a hungry lion! The third one I regret more than anything, it was just a kiss.... but I'm very lucky that I'm able to say I've never been raped.
But main point... That first kiss I had when I was 16... meant NOTHING... it was just getting the crap scared out of me! The kiss in the middle obviously meant nothing either... third guy.. let's leave it at that!!!

My current boyfriend, I wish he was my first kiss. I wish he was my first EVERYTHING. I love him with all of my heart. And I do say he's my first kiss, my first everything, because he's the only one that meant something.
First kiss, my first kiss with the fire works, that surge of power that goes through your body!
First everything goes for the above..
But I'd still like to be able to say he's the only guy I've kissed, touched, said I love you to.. everything. So be happy, save that special thing we call a kiss for your first love :)

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advice from Guest2883033 | 06-14-2007 02:17 | E : 2 | S : 0
My first kiss was with a guy when i was 14, he was 17 and to be honest, i thought he was going in to hug me!
It lasted for 10 seconds at the most and I never saw him again til I was on the bus about a month ago.
MORAL; If you rush it, you'lll proper regret it, especially if it's with the wrong guy!

Be proud of yourself, and DON'T feel ashamed of yourself, it's admirable.
And honey, I bet you are gorgeous. :)
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advice from Guest3285552 | 06-25-2007 19:30 | E : 2 | S : 0
Wouldn't you rather wait until your 35 to be kissed and have it be special and mean something, than have your first kiss at 15 and regret it for the rest of your life?
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advice from Guest2902153 | 04-17-2007 22:00 | E : 2 | S : 1
Don't rush it, because it'll be just that much more special when the time comes. It's like a premature baby...not ready to happen yet.

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advice from Guest3086349 | 05-06-2007 11:31 | E : 1 | S : 0
I'm also 18 and never been kissed. It'll happen someday. It's not good to rush it either. I'd rather have my first kiss by someone that means alot to me, then just someone unimportant, just to say I've been kissed.

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advice from Guest3122013 | 05-14-2007 09:04 | E : 1 | S : 0
youre not alone. it wasnt until i was 18 i had my first real kiss. before that, it was spin the bottle when i was about 11.

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advice from Guest3131996 | 05-16-2007 19:46 | E : 1 | S : 0
I actually think that it shows you are a really strong person
i mean,
sure, lots of girls have their first kiss around 12 some of them
but i think its a good thing to save your first kiss for the right guy

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advice from Guest3164010 | 05-25-2007 04:12 | E : 1 | S : 0
I'm 20 and haven't been kissed. Actually, I haven't been in anything worth calling a relationship. At times I feel worthless and ugly too, but it is in part my fault. I am not willing to hold out for anything less than I deserve, so I say wait as long as you have to - it doesn't make you any less of a person.

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advice from Guest3174763 | 05-28-2007 04:15 | E : 1 | S : 0
Its Not Ugly To Have Not Bin Kissed. I Haveto Say I Will Be 24 This Summer And Im Waiting For The Right Person.

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advice from Guest3212246 | 06-11-2007 02:37 | E : 1 | S : 0
Make sure that when you do have your first kiss, that it's a "Leg popping" kiss.
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advice from Guest3285552 | 06-25-2007 19:33 | E : 1 | S : 0
Never being kissed doesn't make you ugly in any way, shape, or form. I know some seriously ugly people that had their first kisses around 13, and I know some beautiful people that are around 16 now and haven't been kissed.
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advice from Guest952052 | 09-16-2007 23:39 | E : 1 | S : 0
I was 17 and in the same situation as you and I kissed someone who didn't care about me just to get it over with. I would of rather waited than be used. Ever since then all my "1sts" have been cases in which people used me. Trust me, Its worth finding someone who is worth it.
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advice from Guest2870680 | 04-15-2007 07:21 | E : 2 | S : 2
i'm in the same boat. i kept waiting around for the right guy but now i realise that he doesn't exist and EVERYONE has experience apart from me.

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advice from Guest3099577 | 05-08-2007 09:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
there's no such thing of an ugly person.BTW you really don't know how lucky you are. Be proud of yourself, in due time you will know what I mean.

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advice from Guest3231409 | 06-12-2007 22:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
dont feel ugly. honestly kissing isnt all its cracked out to be. dont let it make you feel ugly, once you find the right someone you wont even remember the days when you hadnt been kissed. first kisses generally arent all they are expected to be anyway, you arent missing out on much.

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advice from Guest3247433 | 06-16-2007 16:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
look its not your fault its the guys im sure your not ugly its just that guys maybe dont get to see that side if you maybe you should take some time to pamper your self being 18 and never kissed anyone would turn on most of the guys i know dont rush your self wait for a guy you like to come and make you realise how beautifal you are.
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advice from Guest3278037 | 06-24-2007 00:51 | E : 0 | S : 0
dont feel that way. its nothin to feel bad about. when u do kiss someone they will feel so good about themselves that u chose them to share ur first kiss with.
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advice from Guest1362578 | 11-07-2007 21:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
i didn't kiss anyone until i was 19. it will happen. let the want go and it will happen!

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advice from Guest1867655 | 12-23-2007 22:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm in the same boat as you. Many people commented me back on "Nerd." It kind of gave me hope. IDK...I wish you the best because I completely understand. AND TRUST that looks have nothing to do with kissing.

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advice from Guest3051746 | 05-03-2007 07:20 | E : 1 | S : 4
why do you have to wait to be kissed why don't you kiss some
Ask someone out hang out and kiss them

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