Am i?
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I'm a straight girl but for sum reason i get off on lesbian porn and when i climax 4 5 times its suddenly of no interest. I mean im not attracted to chicks and could never see myself in a realtionship w/ a girl, but i was wondering if that was common or even normal?
Does that mean i'm gay? even if its nothing emotional?
Category Dirty Little Secret
Submitted 09-12-2007 07:17
Visited 2378 times. 86.67 Compelling Rating (rated 9 times) 97.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 10 times)
advice from Guest950487 | 09-16-2007 13:57 | E : 5 | S : 0
i do the exact same thing, and I don't know why!
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advice from Guest952661 | 09-16-2007 16:17 | E : 3 | S : 0
Omg I am just like this!! I have never done anything with a girl and I am not really into that but lesbian porn does it for me and I dont know why.
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advice from Guest1038969 | 09-28-2007 03:05 | E : 3 | S : 0
I do the same thing as well... It's weird.. And I'm Not Gay nor Bi
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advice from Guest1097458 | 10-07-2007 03:13 | E : 3 | S : 0
I am a lesbian (or dyke is the term I like) I get off on gay porn - meaning boys. Does that mean I want a d___? - no. I just like watching it. No worries for you...we like what we like.
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advice from Guest1001339 | 09-22-2007 17:43 | E : 2 | S : 0
if you don't think you are a lesbian, then you probably aren't. But don't close off that part of your sexuality. If you are ever interested in a woman, pursue it. And if you're not, enjoy yourself with any porn that you find erotic.
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advice from Guest950054 | 09-16-2007 13:29 | E : 1 | S : 0
i do the same thing- yet im 100% sure im not gay. maybe you arent either.
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advice from Guest953279 | 09-16-2007 17:26 | E : 1 | S : 0
i do too. so its not just you. theres something about seeing other girls techniques that turns me on. keep it up, you enjoy it don't you!
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advice from Guest967758 | 09-18-2007 11:22 | E : 1 | S : 0
no i just believe that your a sexual being and i don tknow if its normal but i expeirence the same feling sometimes
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advice from Guest1267049 | 10-28-2007 07:26 | E : 1 | S : 0
I do the same thing, and I'm a guy. Its not that a relationship with a guy is gross to me, it simply just doesn't appeal.
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advice from Guest2381431 | 02-19-2008 17:44 | E : 1 | S : 0
I'm the same way, don't worry. I think it's more that you've been told it's a sexy thing, and your body reacts to it.
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advice from Guest950290 | 09-16-2007 13:48 | E : 2 | S : 2
Nope, probably not gay. Pretty normal!
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advice from Guest955183 | 09-17-2007 00:01 | E : 1 | S : 1
OMG! its not gay at all!
Just because you get turned on by lesbian porn doesn't actually mean you gay! Your just going through a phase.
And even if its not a phase then so what?
Everone has thier own sexual intrests!
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advice from Guest1022881 | 09-26-2007 00:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
i have gotten off on women before, and to be honest, i am more interested in feeling/looking/enjoying like they are... not in f______ them, but in BEING f_____ like them :)
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advice from Guest1044608 | 09-29-2007 02:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm sure it is plenty normal for all human beings to explore their sexuality both with others and by themselves. It may be that you like the idea of this porn and their bodies and that's what arouses you. You are not a lesbian because of this. Go with your gut.
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advice from Guest1057192 | 10-01-2007 02:58 | E : 0 | S : 0
No youre totally fine! Im the same way and totally straight! I think i like it so much because I picture myself as the girl. Thats why when i watch porn i watch the girl, not the guy.
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advice from Guest1057192 | 10-01-2007 02:59 | E : 0 | S : 0
No youre totally fine! Im the same way and totally straight! I think i like it so much because I picture myself as the girl. Thats why when i watch porn i watch the girl, not the guy.
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advice from Guest1056794 | 10-01-2007 04:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
Women don't necessarily have a static fix on sexuality. Studies have shown that it's common for straight women to fantasize about women or watch lesbian porn to get off, and for gay women to fantasize about men sexually and yadda yadda yadda.
Men are a little different, but when I was younger I would do the same thing with gay porn, and as soon as I climaxed I would no longer be interested, however, I found out that I'm gay, but I'm also a guy and sexuality is generally more clear-cut for them.
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advice from Guest1095804 | 10-06-2007 20:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
I have a close group of girl friends, and we tell eachother everything, and we are all the same way! And we're all straight! don't worry, it's normal!
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advice from Guest1207394 | 10-22-2007 05:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
I think that there are different levels of sexuality. I love lesbian porn, but I would not be happy in a lesbian relationship. I have had sex with other females and loved it. so i guess that makes me bi, in a way.
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advice from Guest1242847 | 11-08-2007 05:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
DITTO.
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advice from Guest1410221 | 11-12-2007 07:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
Same here
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advice from Guest1480820 | 11-19-2007 04:11 | E : 0 | S : 0
I do the exact same thing! I thought i was the only one...
I feel alot more normal now
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advice from Guest1577774 | 11-27-2007 23:31 | E : 0 | S : 0
You know watching "lesbian" porn makes you even more straight than you think you are! I'm assuming the kind of porn you refer to is the kind you find easily on the net/ in shops etc. That kind of porn is directed at men, not lesbians. It's NOT the way real lesbians have sex. What you're watching is much more raw and sexual and geared at straight people. Like you! So don't worry!
However, if you ever do find yourself sexually or emotionally attracted to another woman, feel free to explore! You only live once!
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advice from Guest1847476 | 12-21-2007 17:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
i am the same way
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advice from Guest1868656 | 12-24-2007 01:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
I definitely like guys... but girl on girl makes me climax hard and fast, and then it's not interesting anymore... you're entirely normal
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advice from Guest2068153 | 01-14-2008 09:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
Weird. I'm a bi (girl) but can only watch gay (men) porn.
We all have our fetishes I guess :P Doesn't mean you're gay, unless you think you are.
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advice from Guest2158247 | 01-24-2008 02:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
me too. your not gay. especialy if you could never see yourself in a relationship with a girl. i am the exact same way. but thinking about oral with another chick gets me pretty excited
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advice from Guest2345618 | 02-14-2008 12:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
i do the same thing. and it freaks me out. but i just figure that i'll work it out eventually.
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advice from Guest2464776 | 02-26-2008 18:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
Totally normal. I am the same way. Love lesbian porn. It's a fantasy, and will always be. COuld never picture myself with another woman. That's why I like it so much.
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advice from Guest1061725 | 10-01-2007 20:26 | E : 0 | S : 1
of course you're not gay. it's normal for most people. in fact, more people do that than you think. although i don't think you wanna be telling that to anyone you meet in person =/
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advice from Guest1124467 | 10-10-2007 22:50 | E : 0 | S : 1
I think it does mean something. If the sight of a woman having an orgasm is exciting to you on video, it probably would be in person too. That means that a woman could turn you on, which means that you are capable of having sex with one and enjoying it, which is the definition of gay or bi. Which is great, by the way. In contrast, I'm a guy and the sight of a naked man turns me right off. I can't even watch couples in porn. I'm literally not capable of making love to a man, there's nothing there at all. I agree with Carlos Mencia, "if you think you might be gay, then you're gay." Or at least bi.
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advice from Guest1087040 | 10-05-2007 13:08 | E : 0 | S : 2
You need to find one of the Invisible Magic Men of the Sky who have written one of the rule books back a few thousand years ago [the ones passed down word of mouth... the absolutely most accurate way to do it] and follow their advice.
Oh, and send them money too. Turns out all of the Invisible Magic Men are really, really bad with money somehow.
Don't sweat your feelings. Guilt is a bigger problem than your feelings.
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advice from Guest1204335 | 10-21-2007 22:38 | E : 0 | S : 4
Being sexual attracted to someone of the same sex is the definition of "homosexual"
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advice from Guest1030109 | 09-26-2007 22:30 | E : 9 | S : 17
Well, porn is an addicting, and perverted thing to start doing. I know. And I used to be like you. May I suggest the word of God and our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ?
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