Being theBig Girl

Yes I am a big girl. I realize this. I do not need the comments about being a big girl. Or being told, well she could take you. Or that I'm intimidating. I realize my height, my weight, and everything about me more than you ever could. So thank you for telling me I'm a big girl.
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advice from Guest833365 | 08-30-2007 06:17 | E : 1 | S : 0
Some of us were made to be bigger. We can't all look the same. What fun would that be anyhow? I'm bigger in my body, mind, and spirit. We have powers. More to love, my friend.
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advice from Guest3578902 | 08-12-2007 00:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
it's ok, dont feel bad about it , im big 2 and yeah kids are bad when i was young i was like no guy could ever like me ( still think that) i had vry low self esteem , now im 18 and i kinda feel bad sometimes but i try to not worry bout it and now i hav a little big higher self esteem and kinda feel better 'bout myself
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advice from Guest774889 | 08-24-2007 06:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know how you feel, but don't lash out. You're asking for help, so be honest. How do you feel you know? How does it make you feel when people call you by that term, big or whatnot. Is it like you're alone? People will tell you to ignore people, but it's a lot easier-said sometimes. Ignoring them is still keeping in a lot of feelings. Just remember that your personality is being challenged, here. Make the problem a solution. Let it be that you know how these people act with their makeup that, any other color, would color their faces thick as clowns and these people with their diets just to feel sexy and confident when knowledge, integrity, and intelligence all seem to go dry. It's better be cool forever than to try to stay hot for the rest of your life.
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advice from Guest780495 | 08-24-2007 14:39 | E : 0 | S : 0
amen sista
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advice from Guest831702 | 08-30-2007 03:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
BIG is NOT UGLY - some one who sees only what is on the outside is missing so much....
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advice from Guest850910 | 09-02-2007 06:29 | E : 0 | S : 0
Hey, I guess I can relate to you: I'm a 'hairy monkey' as I've heard. I realize I'm hairy, but the comments still hurt, you know?

We're stuck with something we naturally grew up as. We can't really change it without dramatic 'procedures' different than how we were meant to be. Let's hang in there. :)
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advice from Guest747992 | 08-22-2007 15:33 | E : 0 | S : 1
I'm a big girl too and I'm 19 yrs old. Ive always been self concious about my body, but you know what if I dont like myself who is gonna like me? After I started feeling better about myself which was about 3 years ago and I startes accepting who I was and I could not change that, even after starting a bunch of different diets, i just started looking in the mirror and thinking how beautiful I was and those skinny ass girls are ugly. After I started having more confidence I started having guy friends and they didnt look at me like I was the big girl anymore, and I met my bf which ive been going out with about 2 years. sometimes I still get mad when i go shopping bcuz something dont fit but whatever u kno. think of it this way we are big but we are not ugly, big ppl can lose wheight but ugly ppl has to go under the knives.. lol.. but seriously start feeling better about urself and u'll notice that people wont see u as the big or as they say "fat" girl anymore.... =D
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advice from Guest3433543 | 08-26-2007 01:11 | E : 0 | S : 1
If it really, really bothers you about how 'big' you are, get some help. Get a membership to a gym, or ask your doctor about diet changes. Just remember that your main goal should be to get fit- not to 'fit in'. If you lose weight for other people, you'll never be satisfied.

P.S. Some people are bigger so that they can fit all of their beautiful soul inside.
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