Blusher

I hate the way I blush at the most stupid or simplest of things. Even people talking to me makes me blush. I can't help it. And each time I do I just want to curl up in a ball and die. I can see people look down on me because of it. I envy people who are confident and really hope that one day I will be too. It is ruining my life and preventing me from doing and saying things I want to say
Category Embarrassed

advice from Guest2544969 | 03-06-2008 00:10 | E : 2 | S : 0
I'm so glad I'm not the only bad blusher :D. It's a bit better now but I still can't stand it.....when I blush i turn into a tomatoe :/
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advice from Guest1512116 | 11-20-2007 23:46 | E : 1 | S : 0
I used to have that problem, all someone would have to do was look at me. I was terrible which wold make blush all the more. I learned how to avoid it. What I was I got a good friend to say embarrising things to me for an hour, two or three ties a week in private. I focused on contrlling it and now I don't blush at all. Good lck!
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advice from Guest1479847 | 11-20-2007 17:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't worry I understand. I use to be like that too and I still am a little. It prevented me to say how I felt and that let people walk all over me. So one day I realized how sick of it I was. I'm trying a little everyday to get up all my courage and tell people how I feel. It's working and making me feel better....alot better.

Just think if you keep letting this happen people are gonna keep looking down on you until you stand up and change it. Believe in yourself and speak up ;)


Good Luck!!!!
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advice from Guest1512058 | 11-21-2007 00:29 | E : 0 | S : 0
Perhaps you're just fair-skined like me? I get red-faced a ton.. and I used to blush a lot.. Now I'm just more comfortable with the people I'm around, because I know that they accept me. Corny right? Its true though.
Maybe you just need to ask yourself, are the people around me, the people I want to be around?
Also, just remember that you are incredible. Theres nothing anyone can say to ruin your day inless you make it so!
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advice from Guest1108137 | 11-21-2007 14:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm the same. I was knicknamed beetroot for 3 years and, no, I did not find it cute or endearing or nice. It just made me go 'bettroot' even more and want the ground to swallow me up.
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advice from Guest1513238 | 12-11-2007 07:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
wow is all I can say. its dissapointing at times, but as I am getting older I am getting a lil bit better. I avoid certain situations that may cause, even though someone who truely gets "redface" not just a lil blushing here or there, tends to feel more like themselves after an episode, or atleast I do. I mean please dont get me wrong, there is nothing in my life I hate more then when this uncontrollerable anxiety or reddening happens, but its a part of life. I truely believe GOD makes this happen to most of us, to more humble us. I am very interested in hearing more please comment or post...+
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advice from Guest2351117 | 02-15-2008 08:01 | E : 1 | S : 1
You are just super shy. Relax a bit.

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advice from Guest2899416 | 04-07-2008 08:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
i still have that problem. not so much anymore but i know its never going away so i learnt to accept it.
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advice from Guest2345618 | 04-11-2008 17:03 | E : 0 | S : 0
i know how you feel. i hate it, this guy asked me for the time yesterday and i felt myself turn tomatoe, he just said oh don't worry i'll ask someone else.
it was so embarrasing.
but i think you just have to think to yourself, don't go red. i know it sounds stupid, but it sort of working for me these days (:
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advice from Guest2994389 | 04-18-2008 11:05 | E : 0 | S : 0
paint half ur face blue and run around a street yelling "for freedom" for 15 mins in a skirt and bra (both male and female should if they have a blush prob) after doing this nothing will seem quite as embarrassing and u shouldnt blush anymore. (shouldnt... if it dont work well at lest u had fun and a good story to tell)

from a guy with a plan
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advice from Guest1961213 | 01-03-2008 14:13 | E : 0 | S : 1
that's so adorable! Just work through it slowly and have a little faith in yourself!
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