Broken Heart
QuickCode : cant get over my ex though id love to
I have a family and yes I do love them but I had my heart broken when I was in college and I still feel broken.
I still fantasize that he will come back into my life with some bombshell that explains everything. He was the love of my life. Our relationship was heavy and passionate and he said we would always be together then suddenly turned cold and started seeing other people. I really gave everything to this relationship and can't seem to recover even to this day.
That was nearly 8 years ago.
I have a small child now and a very good husband who takes good care of us.
I feel ashamed that I still covet a guy that I only had a 4 month relationship with.
Category Romance
Submitted 10-31-2006 08:09
Visited 736 times. 56.67 Compelling Rating (rated 3 times) 67.50 Sincerity Rating (rated 4 times)
advice from Guest1038620 | 11-02-2006 18:12 | E : 3 | S : 0
I assure you that he's probably not all as great as he once seemed to be. If you meet up with him again I'm sure you'll even question why you were with him in the first place back in college.
Think about it, 8 years have passed, you've grown, you have offspring. This was a college boyfriend that made something inside of you burn with passion - remember that when in college you'll still be a very hormonal version of a teenager. Don't kid yourself, I'm sure you have a wonderful life with your family, and I'm sure that this college guy is getting kicked in the ass by karma for what he has done to you and possibly many other girls.
Don't sell yourself short. You're worth more than wanting some dupe who screwed with your head in college.
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advice from Guest824085 | 11-01-2006 11:04 | E : 1 | S : 0
You have done nothing wrong and it sounds like you are a decent mother and partner.
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advice from Guest1004085 | 11-02-2006 06:49 | E : 2 | S : 1
Go for cofee with the guy - if you can find him. You have likely built him up in your mind.
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advice from Guest1209032 | 11-19-2006 21:10 | E : 1 | S : 0
I agree that if you saw him today you would probably realize how much better of a man your husband is.
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advice from Guest1048034 | 11-03-2006 20:09 | E : 1 | S : 1
Sometimes relationships turn sour for inexplicable reasons. You're still pining after him because you never got closure: you never found out why he left you. But you may never find out. Accept in your heart that it's over, and then put it behind you.
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advice from Guest1374487 | 12-03-2006 12:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
What you are really probably longing for is that passion from your younger age...not the man, but who you were then.
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