can someone help me plz
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I have been dating my boyfriend for kinda a long time now and we've had a few rough and tough moments but overall its been good. But lately he says he's been feeling like we are separated and a way to bring us together is if we have sex. I thought I was ready but I'm not! If I don't lose my virginity I lose the guy, but even if we do have sex theres still a huge chance we won't become closer and we'll still break up. The choice seems easy but if I break up with him I'm worried about the black mail he has over me =[[[ What should I do and how should I deal with this?
Category Romance
Submitted 11-27-2007 07:18
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advice from Guest1434691 | 12-27-2007 23:04 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't do it in the end when you do break up he still has the blackmail over you and even more if you sleep with him!
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advice from Guest1902037 | 12-28-2007 03:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
honestly, i suspect he's telling you he feels you are "separated" in order to convince you to have sex with him. don't let him manipulate you like that. having sex will not make your relationship any stronger if you lack the fundamental emotional bond.
do not sleep with him, you're worth so much more than that. <3
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advice from Guest1605546 | 12-28-2007 10:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
Listen. THAT is something you should save til YOUR READY. If he doesnt respect your choice to wait, which I think is awesome because no a days most girls dont, then...sorry sweetie but he is not worth it. You really need to take a step back and think....does this guy really like you for you...or does he like you cause your still PURE and he wants to be the ONE to take that away. I dont know how old you are but if your still young....you have a whole lifetime ahead of you, dont let this one idiot screw that up for you. Hope this helps
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