Cheated on

He broke my heart and turned my whole world upside down. We have been together for eight years, and I thought I would share the rest of my life with him. He didn't actually cheat, but joined a website to meet other women and I found out. He said that he felt that I didn't love him anymore and that he thought I was going to leave him anyway. We are going to try to work things out and go to therapy. I feel like I am going against everything I believed in by trying to work things out, but I love him and can't imagine my life without him. I feel so embarassed that this happened to me and I also feel pathetic for not leaving him.

Category Betrayal

advice from Guest2974799 | 04-24-2007 06:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
My husband told me the same thing. He was trying to find someone and it wasn't because he was afraid of me leaving him. He was going to go through with it. Stay strong

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advice from Guest3028543 | 04-30-2007 05:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
Don't feel bad for going with your heart, I left, cause every-one told me I should......I miss him so much and would give anything to try to work things out....its harder to stay than leave so don't listen to the ones that say differently....good luck

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