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Cheater.

QuickCode : forever cheater.

I've cheated on him with my ex. more than once. He finds out everytime and we fight but he can't let me go. I don't love him. I love my ex. I keep putting out for my ex hoping he'll take me back.


it's been 3 months and he still hasn't yet.

im too in love to stop trying.
Category Betrayal

Submitted 06-16-2007 22:29
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advice from Guest3313527 | 07-02-2007 01:05 | E : 1 | S : 0
Wake up girl, let them both go. First, it's not fair to the current boyfriend to think there is a relationship to save. Have courage, be brave, break it off with him completely. Tell him exactly how you feel. It will crush his ego, but he'll go away.

Second, your giving your power away to the ex-boyfriend, he is having sex with you on his terms. It should be the other way around. If he wants to have sex with you, make sure it's on your terms. Lay out your demands and stick to your guns. He'll come around if wants you. If he doesn't, he wasn't serious.

you can give away your body
you can give away your heart
never give away your power
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advice from Guest3312103 | 07-01-2007 17:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
leave the guy~ your ex is driving you crazy and ur making this new guy feel the same way and just hit ur up and find out if wants you back or just wants to sleep with you till some1 new comes along
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advice from Guest3314992 | 07-02-2007 08:31 | E : 0 | S : 0
its not up to the guy your with now to let you go, its your responsibility to be mature and let him go (despite your ex taking you back or not). maybe your ex is waiting for you to be truly available before he takes you back.
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advice from Guest3272487 | 07-02-2007 13:01 | E : 0 | S : 0
Well maybe it's because your ex thinks you're going to cheat on him the way you're cheating with your current boyfriend. Maybe it's not worth trying for. It's your decision.
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advice from Guest3317689 | 07-02-2007 22:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
Leave your boyfriend if you don't love him.
Putting out means he has no reason to take you back, he's getting what he wants... If you want to have sex, do it for the right reasons.
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