cheating

Cheating on him made me realize how much I actually do love him. I will never tell him, ever.
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advice from Guest1427532 | 11-13-2007 16:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
i think im in the same situation... i dont i cheated on my bf with his older bro. and now my bf means more to me than he did b4.... it cant be explained i will never tell my bf either... so i understand
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advice from Guest1433345 | 11-13-2007 22:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
My wife told me about her infidelities, and it broke my heart, but it was her lies and changing stories that made me think something was happening/had happened. It is a Hobson's Choice. Her telling liberated her and allowed her to realize, just as you, how much she loved me (even though it was more than one guy and more than once). She said she had to get it out of her system, wanted to live a "soap opera life" and was turned on by the danger, the power it gave her (she is pretty enough to have had "boyfriends" over ten years younger than she is, despite having had four kids), and the aphrodisiac of illicitness. these are all understandible, but understanding does not heal the hurt.
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advice from Guest1573988 | 11-27-2007 10:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
that's how i feel .. after i cheated it maybe want my boyfriend that much more .. but how do you live with the guilt or move on because you feel sorry and it was mistake that you needed to learn ?
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advice from Guest1661936 | 12-05-2007 10:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
i cheated and i felt so guilty i told my boyfriend. We had a fight that lasted over 3 months. We broke up and i can't help thinking that i have lost the most fabulous thing i could have possibly had. I sometimes wish i had never told him because we had THE best relationship possible. your doing the right thing... and if is not a long term cheat then it cant mean anyhere near as much as what you have with your boyfriend.
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