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I want to cheat on my husband. just for the attention from the other guy, just for the thrill. just so i can die knowing what it is like to be with someone other than my husband. i REALLY want to. I have the chance and I passed it by. I LOVE my husband. But now, i can't stop thinking about "him" and what I'll be missing. I'm worried the next time I'll do it. I'm worried there won't be a next time. If my husband knew it would crush him.
Category Betrayal

Submitted 12-23-2007 01:49
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advice from Guest2231259 | 02-01-2008 12:48 | E : 2 | S : 0
please don't do it! i've been there and i haven't been the same since i did it and i live with the guilt everyday. i eventually told my husband and the look in his eyes made me want to die - it's been 3 years since i cheated and i can still feel his pain whenever he looks at me. things have never been the same and i believe that he wishes that he never gave me another chance; i believe that he wishes he was strong enough to let me go. we have a beautiful 2 year old daughter together and i hate being scared everyday of having to live without my husband. it's not worth it, ever...
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advice from Guest2234223 | 02-01-2008 19:43 | E : 1 | S : 1
you do not love your husband or else you wouldn't have those thoughts. be honest with him and yourself, get a divorce and allow yourself and him to find someone who truly meets all your needs.
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advice from Guest2430750 | 02-22-2008 20:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
i've been with my partner for almost 8 yrs, and its the only person i've ever been with. i ended up cheating, just because i was soo curious about something else.. and actually i am glad i did.. i feel so much better having gotten it out of my system. i never told my partner, but now we have the best relationship ever.
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advice from Guest2522633 | 03-03-2008 12:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
I disagree that you don't love your husband because you have these thoughts. You are human, and people go through these times. But remind yourself that your husband is your husband for a reason, and do you really want to ruin the life you built for a guy's attention who probably doesn't really care? its your call.
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