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My wife and I have been married over thirty years. I found out ten years ago that she had had lovers over a period of ten years. Not only that, but she did everything with/to them that she never would with me. Although I act as though I have gotten over it, I can't not think about it every day, and I am sad every day. I will never get over it.
Category Betrayal

Submitted 11-13-2007 22:12
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advice from Guest2976088 | 04-15-2008 22:27 | E : 0 | S : 0
How on earth did you ever find out, and then it took you tens years to realize that you can't get over it? Something is missing someplace.
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advice from Guest2180105 | 01-26-2008 15:54 | E : 1 | S : 2
I dont agree with the threesome idea. I think you should leave her. Even if its only temporary - go on holiday alone or something, give yourself the time and space you deserve and need to heal from this massive betrayal.
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advice from Guest1714210 | 12-09-2007 13:20 | E : 0 | S : 5
Confront her openly, engage in threesomes. This will make her feel happy , and you too (you never know how good it feels to be a cuckold)
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