commitment issues
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I think i may have commitment issues. I love being single but i also love relationships. The only thing is i am ALWAYS 'seeing' someone but never in a proper relationship. For example i will flirt and lead other men on and it has even lead to kissing (never anything more) but i justify it by the fact that i am only 'seeing' this man not actually 'with' him.
Now i have moved to univeristy i want to have a real relationship but fear my issues will not allow me to. I have already been seeing one of my guy friends but that broke up after 5 weeks, then i slept with another man (1 night stand) who also just so happened to be a guy friend. I seem to pick the wrong guys even if they seem to be nice on the offset they always seem to treat me badly. The guy i was with for 5 weeks even had a girlfriend who he was sleeping with whilst he was with me!!
Category Didn't Want To Know - But I Do
Submitted 11-20-2006 04:04
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advice from Guest1223908 | 11-21-2006 03:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
What is it that you like so much about being single??
Is it the independance??? Or maybe the reason that you have trouble commiting is because the people that you have been 'seeing' all seem to be guy friends, and often the transition from friend to boy-friend isn't that easy (Trust me on this one!!!)
So maybe it's not so much your fear of commitment, but moreso you're looking in the wrong places, or for the types of people who you think you should like, not the people who you have a natural attraction/chemistry to.
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advice from Guest1211809 | 12-07-2006 11:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
I love the fact that i am not tied down... so i guess it is the independance. The guys i am seeing are not generally my guy friends, I'd like to agree here but i never go for the same guy. My recent guy was completly different to the last. The only thing they had in common was age. But i don't even go for men of the same age!! I am trying to have a man free life at the moment but it never seems to work out. Another thing is the my guy friend who i recently slept with confessed his undying love for me but i don't want him and never will.
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advice from Guest3478448 | 07-29-2007 03:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
Sometimes the person your looking for, has been there all along. Just look around you. Who has always been there for you?
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