Craving Sex should I Cheat

I love my wife more than anything but we don't have sex and i want too. I have thought about finding someone to have a ongoing sexual relationship with or even a one night stand but I don't want to risk losing my Wife.
Category Dirty Little Secret

advice from Guest2034753 | 01-17-2008 20:05 | E : 5 | S : 1
I had the same prob with my girlfriend.. Just talk to her... Dont cheat.. noone on this planet deserves to be cheated on.. it makes someone feel inadequate and worthless... Just talk to her and be patient... there is probably a perfectly reasonable explanation for the lack of affection... maybe you are doing something wrong.. maybe not.. b ut you will never know unless you ask... I promise.. this is what you need to do....If you are any kind of a good person at all...
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advice from Guest2171479 | 01-25-2008 18:08 | E : 5 | S : 2
I have a similar problem. My busband is happy with sex about once a week while I crave it 4-5 times a week. I think about cheating all of the time but I know that my concius will not let me. I masturbate often and hope that that will be enough. An affair is not an option for me. Stay strong.
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advice from Guest3559025 | 08-09-2007 09:30 | E : 3 | S : 1
DO NOT make the same mistake I did, my wife and I had just had a baby and couldn't understand why before the baby we would have sex EVERYDAY and then after, nothing!! So I had what I thought would be a one night stand that turned in to an "arrangement" which turned into a mess! Long story short the truth ALWAYS comes out and I wish I could go back. I can only see my son on Sundays and I miss my now ex wife who was just tired from being up all night with the baby. If I would have just talked to her and been a little patient i KNOW we would have a wonderful marriage today!!
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advice from Guest2811134 | 10-19-2007 02:04 | E : 3 | S : 1
talk to her. seem to be the best idea.
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advice from Guest3423171 | 07-20-2007 23:10 | E : 2 | S : 1
well then hellooooo, you have your answer. maybe you just need to find out what will get your wife going ;)
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advice from Guest3462038 | 07-26-2007 20:26 | E : 2 | S : 1
talk to your wife about it. it is never ok to cheat, but you do deserve to be happy.

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advice from Guest933827 | 09-14-2007 03:40 | E : 2 | S : 1
Talk to your wife. Maybe she feels the same way. This happen to my husband and myself. I just got tired of the same old sex and him getting all the satisfaction and leaving me hanging. It got to the point I just turned him away and I wouldn't tell him why. I figured it wouldn't do any good. I tried and it would get better for a while and it would then return to the same old He's getting off but I'm not. This caused alot of problems in the marriage. Finally after he cheated and we almost divorced we finally both opened up and told each other what we wanted and it been good since then. We love each other and always have but you've got to communicate with each other.
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advice from Guest3414380 | 07-19-2007 17:41 | E : 2 | S : 2
Talk to her, tell her what you need. Also you should find out why she doesn't want to have sex. Make sure you make her feel good before you find pleasure for yourself. If you loved her more than anything you wouldn't be considering an affair, you would talk to her first. If you have an affair you risk hurting her more than you could possibly imagine. Get a divorce before you have an affair. So NO you should NEVER cheat.
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advice from Guest3397298 | 07-21-2007 13:05 | E : 3 | S : 4
Don't do it!!!
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advice from Guest3510972 | 08-02-2007 12:40 | E : 7 | S : 14
Dude, get a f___buddy and dont look back, besides...its kinda fun, you can go into character!...which girl should i call tonight!
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advice from Guest3448673 | 07-24-2007 21:55 | E : 3 | S : 11
id say cheat
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