do i follow my heart or the crowd
QuickCode : i like a this girl
i really like this girl..but im a girl aswell.. i dont know what to do..i cant tell anyone because then i will be thrown out of my friends and family. i just cant lie to myself this time.
Category General Confession
Submitted 03-25-2007 08:15
Visited 1017 times. 84.29 Compelling Rating (rated 7 times) 85.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 8 times)
advice from Guest2913068 | 04-18-2007 19:06 | E : 1 | S : 0
be honest if your family and friends cant except it then you will have to be strong enough to find new friends and after time ur family will come around
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advice from Guest3018144 | 04-28-2007 12:59 | E : 1 | S : 0
I myself have been in the same situation for years.
Finally I was able to tell everryone and I feel great now,
some didn't accept but most did, even my parents.
I am in a great relationship now and couldn't be happier.
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advice from Guest2447973 | 04-26-2007 15:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
get a new friend that isnt homophobic & that you can trust. hopefully a gay girl as a best friend.. ahem.
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advice from Guest3081516 | 05-05-2007 22:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
My advice to you is...like someone else said earlier, if you need support (financially and emotionally) from your parents still, wait a while to break the news to them. If you are able to support yourself, then be honest to yourself and others.
If you decide to be honest to yourself and others, you will be a happier person. You may lose a few friends, but are they really your friends if they don't care enough to support you through a trying time? AND if you do decide to be honest to yourself and others, the friends you will make during this time will end up being a life-long support system.
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advice from Guest3107692 | 05-10-2007 10:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
does the girl return your feelings? If it is one sided I would hold off on coming out of the closet. If you want to come out of the closet tomorrow just because, then I say do it... But if you're considering it for a girl who has no idea how you feel I would hesitate long and hard. What if you don't get the girl, and you lose your family and friends on top of it all? Who will you blame your depression on then?
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advice from Guest3112396 | 05-11-2007 13:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
this is okay. i went through this too when i found out i was gay. its okay to be gay, and if your family loves you, they will overcome this obsicle. they will love you no matter what! thats what family is for. parents can be so understanding when it comes to these things.
As for your friends, if they cannot accept who you truly are, they arent good friends. people should love you who you are...not who you love.
its not a good thing to lie to yourself. this could be a hormonal stage, or it could be that you really are gay. whatever the fact, only time will allow you to really understand who you are. Just remember, its always okay to experiment, just be sure that its really what you want.
good luck:)
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advice from Guest3258056 | 06-19-2007 11:58 | E : 0 | S : 0
In the long run I think that coming clean on it will make you feel the best about yourself, which is what matters. However, it is ok to gradually do that, I mean thats what life is for. So dont just all of a sudden blurt it out because you will probably regret it, but do be honest and do it in a way you will be happy with yourself about.
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advice from Guest3299994 | 06-29-2007 02:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
im in the same position you are.
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advice from Guest2986589 | 04-25-2007 07:39 | E : 0 | S : 1
If you're old enough to take care of yourself, come clean. If you still need your parents for support, I would maybe wait to break it to them. But a secret girlfriend can always be fun.
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advice from Guest2975504 | 04-24-2007 07:19 | E : 0 | S : 8
hey. i know exactly how you feel. the point is not really to tell anyone, but try to grow out of it. sometimes keeping it a secret is the best thing to do.
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