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Does it make me a lesbian

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I'm a 21 year old girl and I always thought I was straight. I would masturbate and think only of men.
Then I started thinking of women, little thoughts would slip in...
Then I would think about men, but I would always need to picture a girl to go over the edge.
Now I only think about girls and thinking about men will actually turn me off completely and destroy my rhythm.
Was I straight and turned gay?
Or have I been bi all along?
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Submitted 11-14-2007 23:59
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advice from Guest1731382 | 12-11-2007 03:04 | E : 1 | S : 0
The truth is you cant choose or change your sexuality. perhaps your bisexual. why dont you do a test or something, go to a pub, find a fun couple and ask to kiss each of them, then see which you like more. or if you liked them both the same etc. in the end you are how you are so dont be shy or anything just embrace it and you will be happier
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advice from Guest1726767 | 12-10-2007 17:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
your fine truly,im straight and think of woman a lot when i masturbate just go with it.wish you all the bestx
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advice from Guest1727037 | 12-10-2007 18:41 | E : 1 | S : 1
You were probably bi all along. Most people are somewhere between completely straight and completely gay.

Your orientation isn't just about what you fantasize about when you are masturbating though. Do you want relationships with men? With women? Both? You can define yourself however you want.
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advice from Guest1726148 | 12-10-2007 20:39 | E : 0 | S : 0
Being a bi woman is very socially acceptable these days. I'd say there is no reason to fear it.
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advice from Guest1740732 | 12-12-2007 02:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
Labels don't help. If you like it you like it. Do what makes you happy.
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advice from Guest1197263 | 12-12-2007 18:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
I think that women are so "feeling" and men are so visual with sex. We often think about how we want to be treated and sometimes only another women would get what we want. I LOVE men but think about women when I want to get off.
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