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im not telling my mom i know about my dads affair because im scared that if she leaves she won't take me with her.
Category Betrayal
Submitted 08-09-2007 21:08
Visited 1799 times. 91.54 Compelling Rating (rated 13 times) 98.57 Sincerity Rating (rated 14 times)
advice from Guest902882 | 09-09-2007 06:47 | E : 3 | S : 0
Honey, it's not your job to tell you mom anything about your dad. What you can do is tell your dad that you know and that you expect (and deserve) stability in your life. Tell him that he has put you in a terrible position and that HE must fix it, because he is the parent.
Your mother won't leave you. Only rarely do mothers leave children. Your compassion and empathy show, so you must be a pretty good kid. That takes godo parents ... good luck sweetheart.
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advice from Guest853722 | 09-08-2007 13:13 | E : 4 | S : 3
don't feel guilty, chances are your mom knows and is not doing anything for your sake, thats what my mom did for the last 3 years I was in high school. The day after I left for college she packed her stuff into a van and left him. SHE LEFT HIM, NOT ME. I ask her years later if she knew and she said, "I knew every monute of every day." My dad married the woman, who 3 months later left him for someone else.
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advice from Guest942351 | 09-15-2007 12:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
hi dont leave.
it's pretty shocking that your dad actually has an affair.
does your dad know that you know?
sometimes honesty helps, and maybe if you tell her that you dont want her to leave, then i guess she'll stay or maybe take you along with her.
though this may not be the best advice, i hope it helps a lil.
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advice from Guest1084655 | 10-11-2007 03:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
I do think your mom already knows or atleast suspects
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advice from Guest1325847 | 11-04-2007 14:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm so sorry. I think that I may have experienced something like that. Sometimes parents can be irrational, and "shoot the messenger." When finding out about an affair, they sometimes feel foolish, and when their child approaches them with knowledge that they couldn't find... It may seem logical to them to completely leave the whole thing behind, or to lump you in on your father's "side." I hope that whatever you choose to do works out for you.
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advice from Guest875780 | 09-05-2007 17:22 | E : 2 | S : 3
If shes would leave you when you wanted to go then she doesnt deserve for you to tell her
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advice from Guest894379 | 09-11-2007 19:49 | E : 0 | S : 1
tell her if she don't believe you. you tried.But what kind of mom wouldn't take ther child with them
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advice from Guest894379 | 09-11-2007 19:51 | E : 0 | S : 1
tell her if she don't believe you. you tried.But what kind of mom wouldn't take ther child with them
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advice from Guest3384624 | 09-11-2007 02:49 | E : 0 | S : 2
jsut tell your mom..nobody likes to be lied to.
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advice from Guest896568 | 09-08-2007 07:50 | E : 5 | S : 8
You dads affair is really nunyabizness.
You dont know whats going on between mom & dad - dont get in the middle - Love both of them as much as you can while they are still around.
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advice from Guest857374 | 09-03-2007 06:05 | E : 0 | S : 4
omgoodness, that's terrible. =[
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advice from Guest824277 | 08-28-2007 23:07 | E : 0 | S : 5
I am sorry to hear baout that.. But umm Here what you should do is... Get some proofs...
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