dont tell me its alright
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one night i was drinking heavily and three guys took advantage of me, later one apologized and due to what i think is some kind of psychological "saving myself" i ended up in a depressing 3 year relationship with one of them that treated me real bad that one night...none of them admit fault, but i know it was wrong to treat a girl like that and i don't tell anyone what happened or how much it hurts. to this day i get dizzy thinking about it, and no matter how anyone justifies anything, i still feel like i was raped...i woke up crying and blacked out. i was only 17
Category Betrayal
Submitted 11-09-2007 16:37
Visited 1701 times. 90.00 Compelling Rating (rated 6 times) 90.91 Sincerity Rating (rated 11 times)
advice from Guest3285745 | 12-19-2007 18:45 | E : 4 | S : 0
you were raped. Anyway the police are slow and not always the most helpful, but they're your best bet. If anything at least talk to a counselor
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advice from Guest3271948 | 02-01-2008 09:41 | E : 1 | S : 1
That's terrible. You are obviously self aware and intelligent, but how is having a relationship with one of them "saving yourself"? You need couselling to work out why you were drinking so much at 17 and to rebuild your self worth. Best wishes, my dear.
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advice from Guest2788402 | 03-27-2008 20:58 | E : 0 | S : 0
i love you
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advice from Guest2983875 | 04-17-2008 12:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
that was rape...when i was very young and also drinking heavily a similar thing happened to me by one older man...dus to my guilt and shame for putting myself in such a situation i kept in and never spoke of it or dealt with it...deal with it and as bad as it may be to speak up YOU MUST! Those guys will do it again and i am sure u will feel better about yourself if u deal with this horrible thing. DONT KEEP IT IN PLEASE U MAY HELP SOMEONE ELSE IN THE PROCESS. God uses us for His work in seemingly odd ways sometimes. Bless you and good luck.
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advice from Guest2988169 | 04-17-2008 12:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
...get out of that relationship and find someone who truly cares about you. Those lowlifes will get what is coming to them. Never ever feel like it was your fault or be ashamed.
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advice from Guest2983879 | 04-17-2008 18:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
They were wrong. That is rape. They are going to pay in the end
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advice from Guest898623 | 12-05-2007 08:57 | E : 0 | S : 3
You WERE raped. Get help-- and write a letter to these a______ that even if they don't want to admit what they did, they're not off the hook. For their sake, they better become atheists and hope there is no God or Judgment Day.
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