eating me up

I masturbate, and have for years. Once I cheated on my girlfriend (now my wife) with a slut who used me and I used her. I let her suck my cock...my first blowjob. I hate this about myself, but I can't stop.
I look at porn, and hide all of this from everyone. I hate it.
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advice from Guest2631224 | 03-13-2008 22:48 | E : 0 | S : 0
Well the truth is you're probably not hiding it as well as you think you are. If you have kids over the age of 10, not only do they know you have it but they've found and seen it personally. Especially if it's online porn you're into .. the whole family knows. Another truth is just about everyone you know masturbates .. men, women alike and it's healthy. Completely and totally healthy. My b/f used to try and hide it from me until I had a candid conversation letting him know that not only did I know but I used to masturbate while fantasizing about him doing it. How he'd look while doing it, the types of things he'd be watching while stroking etc. Now we do it as a part of foreplay or instead of sex and it's enhanced our relationship immensly. Try and discuss it with your wife and see if you're not also surprised. After all, it's forever and she's suppossed to be your best friend.
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advice from Guest2677408 | 03-17-2008 10:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
Everybody masturbates. EVERYBODY!
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