Engaged and in love with another man

I don't know what to do. I waited 3 years for my boyfriend to propose to me. I wished and prayed for him to want to be with me the way I wanted to be with him. It was hard because he doesn't seem to want to open up completely. We are now engaged, and somehow I have fallen in love with a co-worker. I see him everyday. When I see him, my stomach flips and I get super nervous. The other thing is: he's engaged too. I just can't believe I am in this situation....it's driving me insane. I almost wish I didn't meet my coworker, because he is all I think about....
Category Betrayal

advice from Guest1286565 | 12-04-2007 14:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
I can completely feel for you. This exact situation happened to me, except my co-worker was not engaged. I was with my bf for 3 years, even had a child with him and just before he proposed to me, I fell for this other man. And I mean, I fell HARD. The proposal that was supposed to be the happiest day of both our lives was completely miserable. I said yes, but in the back of my mind I meant No. I gave the ring back 3 days later, moved out and started to date the co-worker - who 2 months later dumped me on my ass. I did eventually get back together with my fiance but it was a long hard road and I had to eat a lot of sh_t for leaving him. Take my word for it - INFATUATION DOES NOT EQUAL LOVE!
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