f_ buddy

im 14, a virgin & one of my friends from school & i are going to be f___ buddys. we've already had a thing going on. now its time to build it up. i love it.

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advice from Guest1273689 | 11-23-2007 23:56 | E : 1 | S : 0
WHOA!!! hold up there kid. your talking about a serious step into a dangerous world. it has serious ramifications if something goes wrong. pregnancy and stds are obvious. but what im more talking about is the emotional depth of the situation. you and your friend may be close and you may play around a lot. but consider this, you have sex and its good for you two for a while. thats great. but after a few months you start to see a distancing happening between the two of you. you start talking to other people, you get bf's and gf's. you in turn have sex with them but what you didn't realize is that because you've given yourself to each other and given what you can only give one person your entire life, you have a true love develop between you. it breeds jealousy, hatred, doubt and can cause depression and very disturbing thoughts by the one who may feel dejected. you loose what was once your greatest friend because you wanted to have sex. is it really worth it? i lost my best friend it feels like to that very thing. would i do it again......... thats hard to say. think long and hard about it before you do it, it can have horrible results.
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advice from Guest1537957 | 11-23-2007 16:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
are you nuts? What, are you trying to have a baby at 15? You don't even know what you are doing! Relax and take your time...you don't need a f__buddy! Once that first time is gone...it's gone for good, and you can never get it back. Make it special!
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advice from Guest1539515 | 11-23-2007 19:35 | E : 0 | S : 0
Please don't. At 14 you are too young to be doing that. What will you do if you get pregnant, or an STD? Please throughly think this through.
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advice from Guest1532580 | 11-24-2007 04:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
you're much to young to be having sex - casual or otherwise. not only is your body physically unprepared, but you're too young to deal with a pregnancy or stds. please, rethink this. it will be so much better if you wait. don't throw yourself away.
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advice from Guest1394593 | 11-24-2007 13:17 | E : 0 | S : 0
bad plan!!!!!!!!!
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advice from Guest1601534 | 11-30-2007 03:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
I just hope you thought really hard about this before you made that decision. I'd hate to think that years later you'd look back and regret this decision because you didn't think it through.
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advice from Guest2025197 | 01-15-2008 20:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
Im 15.
I havent had sex, but i too have a f___ buddy that might actually turn into sex soon.
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hey, just be carefull
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advice from Guest2317487 | 02-11-2008 12:34 | E : 0 | S : 0
you are still a kid, sex is not something you should be thinking about right yet.
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advice from Guest1539677 | 11-23-2007 19:56 | E : 1 | S : 3
You are a HO
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advice from Guest1534098 | 11-26-2007 03:13 | E : 0 | S : 2
im 15 -_- and i have had sex a few times , as long as you know the risks of what your doing then its ok to do it , and wtf people 14 year olds normaly dont have stds , only you do because you sleep around with to many people , and im pretty sure they arent getting around to much , and its better to have sex with one person then have sex with 100 , thats a sure way to get an std
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