feeling alive

sneaking behind your back makes me feel alive... even though i love you, i am bored. thinking about him, talking to him, and having that "possibility" helps me keep some excitement in my life. i am not sorry i married you, but we are to young to be this old.
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advice from Guest1288088 | 10-30-2007 17:49 | E : 3 | S : 0
I could have written this myself. In fact I came here to write an idential post~~now all I have to say is DITTO.

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advice from Guest1297219 | 11-02-2007 00:43 | E : 1 | S : 0
I know exactly where you are coming from ! Where's the romance? After years of marriage there's no excitement. More like brothers and sisters than lovers. I like the security of marriage but I sure miss a little romance...someone telling me they think I'm special....someone I can think is super because he gets that look in his eyes everytime he sees me....is that option lost for the rest of my life??? "I'm too young to act this damn old..."

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advice from Guest1548737 | 11-25-2007 23:41 | E : 1 | S : 0
have some respect for your marriage! surely you can think of some other way to entertain yourself. cheating will never cure boredom. sorry, honey.
and incidentally, i noticed the courtney love reference: "i'll do anything."
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advice from Guest1455500 | 11-15-2007 18:06 | E : 0 | S : 0
I feel the same way. I really love my man. We have two beautiful children and the sex is great. I just want to do something DIFFERENT after all these years.
And to the divorce lady - it's not even an option.
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advice from Guest1495072 | 11-19-2007 08:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
talk to ur husband about spicing things up
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advice from Guest1502095 | 11-20-2007 00:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
me too
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advice from Guest1503046 | 11-20-2007 16:24 | E : 0 | S : 0
I agree...............I AGREE! I also could have written this myself! It's so sad that we are where we are. I would love to meet the one's who responded as maybe then we could have romance in our lives and not have to go around each others backs.
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advice from Guest898623 | 11-20-2007 19:07 | E : 0 | S : 0
He's probably doing the same thing. Marriage is WORK people. Sometimes you gotta pedal the bike to make it GO!
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advice from Guest1519502 | 11-21-2007 14:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
I wonder about guilt...just because the person who you betray doesn't know it, that doesn't mean you aren't hurting someone who just maybe really doesn't deserve it. Boring is not a reason to harm someone...and unfortunately, the truth usually does come out. One way or another....
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advice from Guest1519605 | 11-21-2007 15:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
Im glad I havent ended up like all of you. I met my husband when I was seventeen and I knew then that we would spend our lives together. We've been married for 5 years and have 5 gorgeous kids. I can't imagine being with someone else
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advice from Guest1519605 | 11-21-2007 15:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
Im glad I havent ended up like all of you. I met my husband when I was seventeen and I knew then that we would spend our lives together. We've been married for 30 years and have 5 gorgeous kids. I can't imagine being with someone else
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advice from Guest1537957 | 11-23-2007 16:35 | E : 1 | S : 1
Absolutely horrible. You need excitement at the expense of someone else's dignity. Selfish.
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advice from Guest1566690 | 11-26-2007 18:24 | E : 0 | S : 0
you cant have both. mariage is not about yourself, its about the two of you. its a bond its a commitment. it's love. and if you love someone you shouldnt do that. and "we are too young to be this old??" how about you guys try communication!!! its not about age its about the friendship and the relationship. and if its not enough to be married to your spouse ...then leave them... you are probably not happy because you dont have everything you want and thats probably because when you married you just settled. theres love out there that can outstand the years and the pain without an ounce of selfishness.
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advice from Guest1591121 | 11-29-2007 04:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
I have to say I agree with this post I posted an almost identical one
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advice from Guest1595095 | 11-29-2007 14:03 | E : 0 | S : 0
you should have never gotten married because maybe its just your too young for committment maybe you'll never be ready for committment
~17yr old from NY
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advice from Guest1599954 | 11-29-2007 23:20 | E : 0 | S : 0
mmmm that is an unfair game to play in love. very selfish
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advice from Guest1609946 | 11-30-2007 20:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
That's what I'm crying about now. My 1 year relationsip is just boring, I am not ready for marriage. I wish I can just stay with someone forever. =(
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advice from Guest1609945 | 11-30-2007 21:18 | E : 0 | S : 0
And I thought no one else felt like I do.
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advice from Guest2028158 | 01-10-2008 00:51 | E : 0 | S : 0
I hear that completely!! You took the words right out of my mouth!!!
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advice from Guest1242847 | 11-08-2007 05:36 | E : 1 | S : 4
DIVORCE PEOPLE, TRUST ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GET A DIVORCE AND A BETTER LIFE.

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