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I finally found love. To bad he's married to someone else. How is it possible that love and shame have merged into one emotion. I live for the stolen moments we have. The hours of conversation highlight my life. He has small children. They don't know I exsist and yet I could damage their lives if people knew about us. I am a horrible person for being so selfish.
Category Betrayal

advice from Guest1084655 | 10-05-2007 03:32 | E : 3 | S : 0
Been there. It was 4 years before he left his wife. He had children. It did not end up working out between us. He needed someone to help him thru the hard times in his life, When things got better for him after his divorce and he became more independant, he did not need me anymore. I wish I had more respect for my self and stayed away from him.
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advice from Guest3199315 | 07-04-2007 22:18 | E : 1 | S : 0
im in the exact same situation.
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advice from Guest3187835 | 06-23-2007 21:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
thank you. i've been waiting for someone to have the courage to post the same secret i have. i feel for you
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advice from Guest2057450 | 01-13-2008 05:05 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am so in your situation..everyday I want to scream about it. I know we're meant to be together but he's to gutless to admit how he really feels. I am the one for him but I fear he will realsie once it's too late
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advice from Guest2328338 | 02-12-2008 12:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
been there. it took 10 years but he finally left her for me. life is no perfect. hang in there.
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advice from Guest2379248 | 03-05-2008 17:08 | E : 0 | S : 0
I really thought I was in love with my husband, until I met "him" I wasn't looking, but there he was... I looked forward to his calls, the stolen moments and his intoxicating kisses. We can talk about anything & everything... Him, married 26 yrs, one adult child & Me, married 13 yrs, two kids under the age of 10... yes, we got caught and my ONLY regret is the pain we caused everyone... to REALLY love, love like you never thought you were capable of and to have someone love you just for being you... there's nothing like it. It's a year and a half later, he's divorced and I'm about to be and it just keeps getting better.
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advice from Guest2974369 | 04-15-2008 17:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm currently having an affair with a man with an infant daughter. He and his wife only got married because of her pregnancy. She cheated on him first.
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advice from Guest2057450 | 01-13-2008 05:03 | E : 0 | S : 2
I am so in your situation..everyday I want to scream about it. I know we're meant to be together but he's to gutless to admit how he really feels. I am the one for him but I fear he will realsie once it's too late
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advice from Guest3320606 | 07-03-2007 11:47 | E : 2 | S : 5
you may love him but he obviously doesn't love you if he has a wife, he is just using you because his wife won't give him any. its ok to be in love, but think of what damage you could cause to the family, children growing up in a broken home. and for the record you are not the selfish one, he is, he has two women when u barely have one...but he will tell you what u want and need to hear. just give yourself something real, someone who is jus for you and not shared
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advice from Guest3336571 | 07-06-2007 15:51 | E : 0 | S : 3
Sounds like you're married too and/or you're trying to write the letter from the guy's perspective - I bet you have two little ones, too bad - doesn't your family deserve better?
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