Forbidden Love

I am in love with a married man. I know he feels the same way and whenever we are together it feels like it's meant to be and nothing else matters and when we're not together I'm always thinking about him. I have never felt this way before in my life and I've never had someone tell me they feel the same intensity for me that I feel for them. I know it sounds stupid but I think he's staying with his wife because he doesn't want to hurt her and doesn't want to admit that maybe he made a mistake by marrying her. I know if I had met him first we would be together and I just know he feels the same. I don't know how to make him realise that lying to himself about how he really feels will not only hurt her in the long run but himself as well..
Category Romance

advice from Guest2559115 | 03-07-2008 19:59 | E : 1 | S : 0
You're probably right but don't discount the fear he has of ending it with her and being left alone. You need to be outright and open and tell him that if he ends it with her - you'll be waiting in the wings. I'm in a trapped situation, too embarrassed to let the families know, pressured to be nice, constantly walking on egg shells, etc ... but I loathe the thought of admitting it was all a huge mistake and being left to pick up the pieces on my own.
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