Friend..gay

well im not gay, but I do have family members that are. And I dont have problems with gays at all, but I dont want to be one! Well I had this really weird dream last night and I need help understanding it. I know it was just a dream but arent they supposed to tell us something about ourselves? Well in my dream my best friend was having an affair with my sisters boyfriend and all the while my sister was begging me to help her find who it was, and at the same time my bff (we are both girls) was begging me not to tell my sister she was sleeping with her bf. Well, i guess in some messed up way me and my bff started a romantic relationship and I promised not to tell but it hurt because it was my sister you know? and plus my bff stopped sleeping with him. I cant remember if I did anything as far as sex goes with her, but I do distinctly remember kissing her a lot and finding it very pleasurable. So I DO NOT want to tell her in real life now that Im awake, because she is very homophobic, plus I didnt think I was gay. Am I gay? what is this telling me? Some advice is needed please and maybe you can email me? [moderated : sorry - no email addresses or links] with any info because ive never been on this site and prbly wouldnt find how to get back. Thanks!
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advice from Guest2091343 | 01-25-2007 20:48 | E : 1 | S : 0
this isnt telling you anything.... everyone and i mean EVERYONE has similar dreams or thoughts... its completely natural... when i was a teen i had them myself... it mean nothing other than the fact that ur healthily exploring ur sexuality in your mind.... if u feel nothing for her in every day life.. then dont worry.... if you do... then dont worry.. tis normal :)
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advice from Guest2413079 | 02-24-2007 17:16 | E : 1 | S : 0
I had a dream where in order to save the world I had to do this weird sexual thing with my sister.
and I have sexual dreams about guys i just met or barely even know.

Don't worry about it.

Just because I dreamt of my sister doesnt mean I want her sexually. Thats just... gross.
I was just watching some stupid lifetime movie before I went to bed.

I think the things you dream really just depend on your state of mind when you're falling asleep or things that have been happening lately.


and right now, if you think about a woman intimately, does it arouse you?
If you see a girl and want to touch or kiss her, then you're most likely gay.


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advice from Guest2715856 | 03-30-2007 20:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
I don't even think getting aroused by seeing a women makes you gay. People are beautiful creatures and its natural to be curious. But gayness is just a result of acting on your curiosities and being attracted to that which you can't have. People are naturally greedy and want more out of life, but that doesn't make muff diving the right the choice for you.
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advice from Guest2958804 | 04-22-2007 16:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
Your not gay. Dreams are processed information of things that occured that you rememebr. But sometimes it get flipped around. Like after i watched dare devil i had a dream i was being chased by the villian witht the bullseye on hois head.

So if you remember being with you friend on like not being gay it could have mnade that dream happen. Dreams make you act a way your not. In real life i would never beat the shizzle out of my dad. But in my dream i did. Was i mad at him that day,no,have i ever wanted to,no, would i ever? no.

same goes for you

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advice from Guest3162242 | 05-30-2007 22:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
pshh... i've had gay dreams... i had wierd gay dreams like this one time i had this dream were i was having oral sex with this dude and then he told me that he was really an alein and then he took me to mars and come to find out he really a martian femal that got a sex ghange... makes no sense but w/e.... gay dreams mean nothing
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advice from Guest3278037 | 06-24-2007 01:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
i dont think ur gay. u say that u have family members who r homosexual? well if so then this dream is very normal. u r around homosexuality often and its understandable that u would have a dream about it.
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