Gay

I'm 17 years old and I'm gay my first encounter was when I was 15 in my moms basement with this guy I liked and my first boyfriend was when I was sixteen. My mom is the only person in my family that knows but I still need someone to talk to I feel like I'm losing my mind!!! I just moved to New York and my boyfriend moved to Cleveland, Ohio... we still keep in touch but it's not the same... I'm tired of everyone constantly telling me to just come out. I won't be ready until I'm eighteen I don't know why. My birthday is just four months away... I have no friends because I just moved here and I think I'm going into a deep depression...
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advice from Guest2677377 | 03-19-2008 09:52 | E : 1 | S : 0
be strong. everything will work out for the good!!!!!!!!!
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advice from Guest1715895 | 01-08-2008 21:44 | E : 1 | S : 1
I recently came out and I feel great.. I too waited until I was eighteen.. If you want to talk email me...[moderated: email removed -sorry]

I am by no standards a spectacular person, but if it is someone to be there for you that you want I can try...
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advice from Guest2635188 | 03-14-2008 06:27 | E : 0 | S : 0
well think it through and think on how to tell someone..
i appreciate that it must be hard..
but also think of moving as a positive as you can tell people striaght out and they will not know any different.
i am sure that you can visit your boyfriend and he can come and stay with you too..
enjoy what you have and harbour it..tell people..dont hide it..they will find out some way or another..and it will be worse than you telling them yourself.
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