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i think my boyfriend (of 2 years) is gay. i really do. he has a friend that lives with him and they joke around about it all the time. when i first met him i swear the sexual orientation on his myspace said "NOT SURE" i didnt know what that meant at first, and when i figured out what it meant after we started dating it had been changed to "straight" one time he told me he was gay and when i flipped out he was like "oh my gosh im just kidding!" what should i do??
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Submitted 11-28-2007 17:53
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advice from Guest2129222 | 01-20-2008 21:28 | E : 1 | S : 0
You shouldn't have flipped out sweet pea. You'll never keep him and get what your heart desires. He loves men... maybe.. yes... no.... not important. Support him in finding out so you can all move on and be who you are and get the love you deserve.
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advice from Guest2755997 | 03-25-2008 19:15 | E : 1 | S : 0
Sit down with him and just tell him that you're worried. Honestly, if you're that worried about his sexual preference after two years then I don't think he's the right guy for you anyway.
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advice from Guest1939695 | 12-31-2007 18:18 | E : 0 | S : 0
You need to talk to him about it. If he is gay, then you will need to be willing to let him go.
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advice from Guest1930739 | 12-31-2007 20:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
He's gay, he's just in the closet. You should let him be happy especially if your not happy with him
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advice from Guest1945750 | 01-01-2008 16:24 | E : 1 | S : 1
maybe u should just have a real conversation wiht him and ask him about it and instead of freaking out on him in the start actually let him say what he needs to say cuz its better if u find out and no and start living ur life instead of holding both u AND him back
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advice from Guest1933320 | 01-03-2008 00:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
i think you should just be straight up and ask him. he might deny it but just tell him that you know him better then he thinks. you have been with him for 2 years so you know him very well and should be able to talk to him about this. he might just be petrified to tell you and everyone else and keeping it in may cause him pain. if you are there for him and he knows it, he can come out and feel comfotable and accepted
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advice from Guest1946620 | 01-03-2008 13:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
o dear .... u just need accept the fact he is gay I know its hard my ex I was with him for a yr and a half n he turned out to be gay I always knew he was I just didnt want to accept it n it was even harder when I finally did
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advice from Guest1927863 | 12-30-2007 09:51 | E : 0 | S : 2
He's gay!
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advice from Guest2899416 | 04-07-2008 08:54 | E : 0 | S : 2
hes probably bi
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advice from Guest1956104 | 01-02-2008 23:01 | E : 1 | S : 4
that must b hard... why dont u try to set him up... ask a 'gay friend of a friend' (there must b at least 1) and see what he does.. u'll finish with both ur and his doubts!
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advice from Guest2433838 | 02-23-2008 04:27 | E : 0 | S : 3
Yo... Your man is a freak! Even though he said he was joking... is all because he seen how fast you would flip out if it was the truth. You need to just be straight up and ask him and tdon't freak out but get him seriously going and wait a little bit in the conversation before you bust him. It might be a good idea to take a xanex or something also because you need to calm down and not flip out like you did. He probably got scared and didn't wannatal about it anymore. He probably wishes you would have listened also because he might think of you as his only person to confide in. Be easy next time baby gurl.
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advice from Guest1984548 | 01-25-2008 07:56 | E : 0 | S : 4
I don't know ANY straight guy who would pretend to be gay even for one second with a friend or girlfriend....
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advice from Guest1954275 | 01-02-2008 17:33 | E : 0 | S : 7
(SLAP) He's gay or bi-sexual, otherwise known as GAY but with the caveat that he prefers to be the male in the relationship. He's gay and has a higher probability of contracting a STD than a well protected hetero couple. End it politely, my guess is that if you sniffed around you'd find plenty of soft evidence like Men's Health magazines, letters from guy friends, look at his choice of movies, poke around his my space friends list. At best he's overly comfortable with gay friends but most hetero guys (even those of us with gay men / women friends) want it make it explicitly clear that we are straight. Good Luck!
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