Giant Loser Yep that is me

I am consistently lying and ruining all good things that happen to me. I screw up jobs and relationships. I hate myself. I've attempted suicide and probably will again since I am always feeling like it would be nice to put myself out of my misery. I'm a pathetic loser.
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advice from Guest1095993 | 10-06-2007 21:20 | E : 0 | S : 0
i often feel the same way, but i think its faith that keeps me going...faith that there is something better around the corner or at some point in my future...faith that all of the bad stuff that i have gone through and am going through will make the good stuff in the future just that much sweeter when it finally comes my way...
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advice from Guest1088103 | 10-06-2007 23:03 | E : 0 | S : 0
hey sorry to hear about your tough time. But seriously suicide isnt the answer. Remember everyone messes up in life. The point im trying to say is learn from the mistakes and move on. And dont do them again.
Btw I have problems in the past which I hate also. Everyone does. =)

=) take care.
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advice from Guest1837118 | 12-20-2007 16:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
stop thinking that way, sounds like you have lofty goals, big ideas, and very little patience. Let your jobs pan out and your relationships develop. As you get older it's harder to keep starting over and you need to realize you're not alone, the dot.com phase and now the ex-military and ex-real estate industry people are all 'starting over.' It's okay, just focus and demonstrate a positive attitude. Relationships can feel like their going nowhere or rushing to the next step, trust your gut and try not to always be 'suspicious' of other people's motives. Relax, laugh, and live. Good luck !
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advice from Guest1914362 | 12-28-2007 15:40 | E : 0 | S : 0
im the same way trust me .

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advice from Guest1886149 | 12-29-2007 16:52 | E : 0 | S : 0
you're not the only one, i to tried commiting suicide, i stopped talking to everyone, i lost a great deal of weight, i started using drugs, at school i started seperating myself from my friends and soon i was alone.. i couldn't wait until it was all over, so i did it, or atleast i tried, but it didn't work, i bled a lot but nothing, anyway i don't know what happened, why i decided to change things after that, now i know that no one has control over my life except for me,i am 20 yrs old now, i love my life, no i am not the wealthiest or the prettiest or the "smart one" but i love myself, and thats something that most have gone their whole life trying to achieve..please no that you are not alone, you're not the only one that feels this way, have hope.
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advice from Guest1926290 | 12-30-2007 04:24 | E : 0 | S : 0
write a list of the things you DO like about yourself.
i like you already! youre honest!
well... youre being honest now right? hehe
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advice from Guest1938739 | 12-31-2007 15:31 | E : 0 | S : 0
I often get the same feeling, your not completly usless. you will realise that. Dont lose hope its a horribe thing to lose
<3
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advice from Guest1961213 | 01-03-2008 14:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
How about you go about changing your life instead of ending it? I know it's hard and the journey is tough, but the outcome will be well worth it.
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advice from Guest1434379 | 01-06-2008 21:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
go to a place where you forget who you have to be, and remember who you are. take time to reconnect with your beautiful, confident and reassuring self. please, love and cherish your life. you have no idea how luck you are.
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advice from Guest2036961 | 01-10-2008 21:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
God loves you, no matter how dark it may seem at times. Just remember that there is always something wonderful in life...you will find it if you hold out.
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advice from Guest2128543 | 01-20-2008 19:36 | E : 0 | S : 0
Please find a good pychologist. Once you find out why you mess it up for yourself, it will all make sense! Maybe if you find an activity that enables you to help others, you can help make more positives in your life. Take care of yourself please!
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advice from Guest2109284 | 01-25-2008 15:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
try a dog or a cat. they can provide amazing comfort fir people that feel like they have holes in their hearts. when i was little i thought of commiting suicide several times. i thought if i could just convince myself to do it then maybe my parents would change their mind about everything and wish they had done things differently. i obviously never did. and the only thing that kept me from it was a dog named onyx.
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