girlfriend or boyfriend?
QuickCode : bi-sexual?
I have a boyfriend who is so great to me.
but I really want to date a girl..
I don't know why.
I'm kinda confused.
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Submitted 09-10-2007 01:10
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advice from Guest3318991 | 09-14-2007 19:38 | E : 0 | S : 0
i went through feeling like that.
when my relationship with my boyfriend ended i saw a couple of girls.
i prefer being with guys, but being with girls is sexier. If that makes sense.
its perfectly normal though.
Don't worry
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advice from Guest1379037 | 11-09-2007 03:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
Date a girl and do it. It's that simple: either you'll like it or you won't.
Your boyfriend won't mind: there's no male rival. Hell, some men fantasise about 'girl-on-girl' action, and that's actually a bigger problem - potential problem - to your relationship than any sense of 'cheating'. You move from being a partner to a porn plaything.
For some men, anyway: not all.
As for meeting hot women, date one or two by personal ads but cultivate them for friendships and to find the scene in your nearest big city: you need introductions, as some lesbian bars are wonderfully welcoming places - designed for people to meet and chat - but others aren't. And we're all nervous about strangers. But, once you're in a crowd you're comfortable with and you have a circle of friends you're 'out' to, that's when you start dating for real.
Slowly does it. Until the moment comes: then, just as with your boyfriend, you give your all.
As for being confused and worried about yourself, there's no such thing as 'straight' or 'Gay': we're all straight *and* gay, it's a continuum, not an either-or divide. It is also completely and perfectly normal to have some attraction for other women: the only problem is hysterical and hostile reactions from outsiders - women with a overly-restrictive childhood and a peer group of vindictively-religious friends.
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