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half gay love triangle

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im a lesbian but ive had boy friends in the past (before i realized i was gay). im still in the closet

My ex-bf loves me and wants to get back together and theres no chance of that but i want to keep his friendship because hes one of my closest friends. Also I am completely infatuated with one of my ok friends, and want to let her know im les and interested without losing her friendship either. Ive never asked her is she was gay but she is very touchie and i think she might be. (though i might just think that because i like her so much)

any advise for either of these probs would help greatly.
Category Romance

Submitted 10-20-2007 04:14
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advice from Guest1622771 | 12-02-2007 02:50 | E : 1 | S : 0
Just explain to your ex that your Gay and in love with someone else but want to stay friends. Find out if your friend is Gay, if she is, hang out with her some more then ask her out. If shes not, hang out with her LOTS, dont tell her your Gay, then when your get to be really really close tell her how you feel BEFORE you tell her your Gay, otherwise she'll think its just a crush.
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