he cheated

he cheated on me with a girl i hate. my friends tell me i should be mad at him but i cant do it. they tell me i should've dumped him. for some reason i cant get mad at him. i love him more than he'll ever know.
Category Romance

advice from Guest940891 | 09-15-2007 05:26 | E : 1 | S : 0
My ex g/f cheated on me and broke my heart by leaving me for him. I still love her and its been 5 months out of a 9 month relationship. I try but no matter how hard its always her in my mind. She even rubbed it in my face, but I still cant let go. I know how you feel, and you have to do what's best for you. Cheating is wrong, but love is strong. Give him a chance, but dont let him take advantage of you. You DESERVE someone that will love you as much as you love them. I only wish I could find my someone............
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advice from Guest2264299 | 02-05-2008 10:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
You are disrespecting yourself by staying. Trust me, I know how easy it is to stay! - but, please, at least put up a fight - dont let him walk all over you like that! Good Luck x
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advice from Guest2270959 | 02-06-2008 02:05 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know exactly what you're going through.. but sometimes the right thing to do (for yourself) is the hardest of all. No one deserves to be cheated on and loving someone isn't always enough to stay in a relationship.. you can only hold on to a lie so long and the longer you do the more it will hurt.
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advice from Guest2320482 | 02-11-2008 16:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know what your going through.Something like that happened to me.I was in a relationship for two years and Im 17.Yeah people say when your 'young' you can love but I was in love.Love can hit you at any age and I was.We broke up a month ago and I miss her alot but I can't go back with her because the problems will flow back on us again.Just stay strong and try to fine someone thats better for you and treats you the way you should be treated.
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advice from Guest2336314 | 02-13-2008 13:00 | E : 0 | S : 0
Well I agree with your friends you should not let not man think that he can cheat and it will be ok with you . If he knows their is no reaction than he is going to keep on cheating.
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advice from Guest2447306 | 02-27-2008 18:12 | E : 0 | S : 0
this reminds me of my bestfriend, except she was the other woman. i constantly tried to make her imagine how she would feel if she was this guys girlfriend. she continued what she was doing because she said she was in love with him. and he was just using her and she doesnt seem to care for my advice. she shouldnt settle for anything until she is the number one in some ones life, and so should you.
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advice from Guest2766299 | 03-26-2008 23:03 | E : 0 | S : 0
i know exactly how u feel! im in the sae position.
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advice from Guest2868947 | 04-04-2008 09:53 | E : 0 | S : 0
I feel the same way. replace "girl" with guy.
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advice from Guest2899416 | 04-07-2008 08:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
sounds familiar. My bf cheated on me but I couldnt get mad at him. I was just so upset that he left me. After time passed and I hadnt seen him I realised what he had done and I was just angry with him. Therefore I could start to move on.
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advice from Guest2906110 | 04-07-2008 23:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
Do what feels right to you. But, you should let him know that it will take you time to trust him again. and yuo should give it time before you trust him again.
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advice from Guest2977265 | 04-16-2008 03:01 | E : 0 | S : 0
i know exactly how you feel.
the tears i've cried over this same feeling could drown out the ocean.
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advice from Guest2981200 | 04-16-2008 14:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
if i were you i would leave him. once a cheater, always a cheater.don't fall into his little trap. he thinks that he can cheat on you, knowing that you will stay with him.
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advice from Guest2994779 | 04-18-2008 10:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
i think you should talk to him and see where hes mind is.......and put options youll leave if hes not committed you stay if you have a plan
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advice from Guest1929906 | 01-09-2008 23:52 | E : 1 | S : 2
Well, of course you're going to hate her now. And at sometimes you have to stand up for yourself and your principles. Even if it hurts.
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advice from Guest2660327 | 03-16-2008 11:22 | E : 0 | S : 1
WHY WASTE YOUR TIME WITH A CHEATING SCUMBAG! OBVIOUSLY HE DOESNT CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS ESPECIALLY BECAUSE IT WAS WITH SOMEONE YOU HATE! DUMP HIM ASS AND FIND SOMEONE THATS ACTUALLY WORTH YOUR TIME!
but i understand if you cant because you love him too much cuz i was in a similar situation, but is it worth getting your heart broken? just do whats best :)
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advice from Guest1928535 | 12-30-2007 13:21 | E : 0 | S : 2
thats right. look, whatever other ppl say, it doesnt matter. what matters is that u love him. if u do, be there fr him as long as u love him, n if ur there fr him when he needs someone.. he mite want u back again. dont beg of him all the time, sometimes its ok, guys want authority somtimes, im a guy(i dont wnt bt thts wht most guys do).. bt dnt giv up. my gf dumped me. i still love her. n im there for her. so wait, but nt 2 long or he'll be gone. n somtimes dnt let him knw u wnt him back. it mite hurt u inside, but be cool on the outside.
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advice from Guest1928535 | 12-30-2007 13:19 | E : 0 | S : 3
thats right. look, whatever other ppl say, it doesnt matter. what matters is that u love him. if u do, be there fr him as long as u love him, n if ur there fr him when he needs someone.. he mite want u back again. dont beg of him all the time, sometimes its ok, guys want authority somtimes, im a guy(i dont wnt bt thts wht most guys do).. bt dnt giv up. my gf dumped me. i still love her. n im there for her. so wait, but nt 2 long or he'll be gone. n somtimes dnt let him knw u wnt him back. it mite hurt u inside, but be cool on the outside.
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advice from Guest967347 | 09-18-2007 10:35 | E : 1 | S : 6
good for you, stick with the guy, i'm sure he'll never let you down again. once a cheater, never a cheater again, isn't that what they say
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