He doesn't love me back.QuickCode : confusedIt's really hard to be completely honest about this for some reason. I don't even know you people, but I'm afraid you'll judge me. I've been in love with the same guy for a year. We used to be dating, but when he started thinking he loved me, he got scared. We broke up, I guess? We're best friends. We tell each other everything. He recently moved to New York. He makes me feel beautiful. We. Uhm. We have phone sex. And I've always felt that you shouldn't have sex with somebody unless you love them, and he feels the same way. Sometimes I start thinking he loves me, he's just afraid to admit it. The other night I asked him to tell me the truth. That if he doesn't love me, he should just say it. It took him at least a half hour, and he kept crying. At one point he even said "Why do you think it's so hard for me to say it?" "Because you don't want to hurt me." "That's not it!" and I thought.. I thought that he was going to tell me he loved me. But a few minutes later he finally did it. "I don't love you,___" And I was crushed. I still am.. but another part of me still thinks he's hiding it. I'm so confused. I always thought you shouldn't stay with somebody who doesn't love you, but I can't leave him. We need each other. Visited 13904 times. 75.51 Compelling Rating (rated 49 times) 83.33 Sincerity Rating (rated 60 times) advice from Guest2038300 | 01-22-2007 12:35 | E : 10 | S : 6 advice from Guest2981980 | 04-16-2008 17:00 | E : 3 | S : 2 advice from Guest2687664 | 04-08-2007 17:38 | E : 3 | S : 4 advice from Guest821011 | 01-09-2007 13:20 | E : 6 | S : 8 advice from Guest2687664 | 04-08-2007 17:35 | E : 5 | S : 7 |