Her
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She loves me, and wants me to be happy.
How is it that she's the one making me unhappy?
I hate my finacee.
Category Dirty Little Secret
Submitted 10-20-2007 01:15
Visited 4024 times. 97.27 Compelling Rating (rated 11 times) 81.11 Sincerity Rating (rated 9 times)
advice from Guest2335565 | 02-21-2008 12:01 | E : 2 | S : 0
Seriously, the best thing for both of you is to leave her. If she can't make you happy, she can't expect you to stay with her just for her sake. It's a lie, and it'll end up getting worse if you stay.
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advice from Guest2699643 | 03-19-2008 13:22 | E : 3 | S : 1
This is my worst nightmare. I hope that my fiancé doesn't feel like that about me.
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advice from Guest1368747 | 11-08-2007 15:23 | E : 1 | S : 0
And marrying her will make your life better and richer how?
And how is that fair to her?
Walk away now before the wedding. It is not too late.
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advice from Guest2305064 | 02-10-2008 00:23 | E : 1 | S : 0
get out before it's too late! It may hurt her to break off the engagement, but it will only hurt her more in the long run if you keep pretending! Besides, dont just do her a favor, do *yourself* a favor! neither of you will be happy if you keep this up.
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advice from Guest2758570 | 03-26-2008 02:22 | E : 1 | S : 0
I felt the same way about my now husband of two 1/2 years. I just couldn't say no and I just went through with it because my family liked him and reassured me about him. I went through a lot of anxiety at the first of the marriage, but it went away. I'm actually really glad that I married him.
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advice from Guest2454122 | 02-25-2008 13:27 | E : 1 | S : 1
Pretty common feeling if it has to do with wedding plans, if it's beyond that than let her know you're overwhelmed and love her but can't see yourself moving forward with the wedding. It wouldn't be fair for her or you to proceed with doubts in mind. Better to have a close friend cry now then split your assets and debts in a few years as bitter enemies.
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advice from Guest2835334 | 04-01-2008 12:34 | E : 1 | S : 1
Grow up.
This isn't grade school, dealing with little white lies. This is someone's future, if you are too much of a pussy to leave her because you're afraid of what she'll think of you, perhaps think of her and stop being so god damn selfish.
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advice from Guest2891222 | 04-06-2008 13:54 | E : 0 | S : 0
Seems you have already made your decision. If she really wants you to be happy, give her the same respect. Because if you stay and are unhappy..you will eventually make her miserable as well.
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advice from Guest2896259 | 04-07-2008 00:50 | E : 1 | S : 1
You have to TELL her. I don't know what I would do if my fiancee hated me and married me anyway. What a horrible thing to do to her.
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advice from Guest1416207 | 11-12-2007 23:02 | E : 1 | S : 2
GET OUT IT NOW. Dont be so selfish. Think of her feelings.
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advice from Guest2121586 | 01-20-2008 01:36 | E : 0 | S : 1
Um.. ok then dont marry her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! let her find someone else
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advice from Guest2224988 | 01-31-2008 16:18 | E : 1 | S : 2
DO NOT MARRY HER! YOULL RUIN YOUR WHOLEEEEEEEEE LIFEEEE
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advice from Guest2257207 | 02-04-2008 15:13 | E : 0 | S : 1
Get out while you still can!!!! a break-up is a lot easier and cheaper than a divorce...especially if there are kids involved. Break up with her and feel like crap for a month instead of getting divorced, which will make you suicidal for a year.
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advice from Guest2286284 | 02-07-2008 22:17 | E : 1 | S : 2
I know exactly what you mean. I am in the exact same situation with my babies daddy. we are supposed to get married in two months. I hate him. I cant stand him. But I also cant stand the thought of him being with someone else. I have no advice, just want you to know you are not alone.
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advice from Guest2808784 | 03-29-2008 20:48 | E : 0 | S : 1
You should definetly leave her because your obviously not right for each other if you hate her. You are clearly a very selfish person. Heed my warning you dont know what you have till its gone....
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advice from Guest2492371 | 02-29-2008 08:10 | E : 0 | S : 2
dont be so stupid.....in the end
she's the one who is going to
get hurt not you!
WALK AWAY NOW....
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