I'm not in love
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There was a time where I was in love with you, but now i just love you as a friend and I don't know how to tell you.
Category Romance
Submitted 01-27-2007 12:23
Visited 1100 times. 84.29 Compelling Rating (rated 7 times) 75.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 6 times)
advice from Guest2388908 | 02-21-2007 19:40 | E : 1 | S : 0
How long have you been together? Passion can come and go, especially if it's been more than a year or two. That's not to say it won't come back - you have to ask yourself how you're REALLY feeling. Then be honest.
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advice from Guest2446388 | 02-28-2007 09:48 | E : 1 | S : 0
a lot of the time I feel my boyfriend feels this way about me. :(
Worst feeling is knowing they aren't telling you.. its not fair and it makes it harder for both people
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advice from Guest2549063 | 03-12-2007 06:36 | E : 1 | S : 0
sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind honey... you have to tell, otherwise living this lie will shatter you both in many ways. believe me, this is coming from a person that spent years with someone without telling the truth about her real feelings... twice! they both hate me to this day...
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advice from Guest2679034 | 03-26-2007 14:51 | E : 1 | S : 0
I felt this way about my fiance...for months I was miserable. Now that things are over I'm much happier, and I can only hope that he is too. The sooner you are honest, the better.
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advice from Guest821011 | 02-01-2007 01:08 | E : 0 | S : 0
That is difficult and always very confusing for the other person.
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advice from Guest2184774 | 02-01-2007 09:17 | E : 0 | S : 0
Be honest. You both deserve it.
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advice from Guest2385971 | 02-21-2007 12:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
Awwwww. *hugs* I'd seek the advice of a marriage counciller or something, other than that you have to tell them, as much as you might feel bad.
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advice from Guest2391620 | 02-22-2007 04:04 | E : 0 | S : 0
I'm afraid my boyfriend and I were like this. He said I was inconvinencing him.
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advice from Guest2552840 | 03-12-2007 14:22 | E : 0 | S : 0
I broke up with my girl friend, it was really hard, I fell out of love a long time ago, and let me tell you this. If i would have told her when I fell out instead of not dealing with it. When I finally came around to tell her it was much harder, the longer it gets the harder it will get. no pun intended.
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advice from Guest2665152 | 03-24-2007 22:47 | E : 0 | S : 0
i'm right there with you, and i would say depending on the time you've been together is when you should tell that person, its only fair to you and them!
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advice from Guest2801069 | 04-08-2007 14:55 | E : 0 | S : 0
i'm in the same predicament. there's this guy, and he was my best friend and we had a fling for a while, and i still say 'i love you' to him, but i mean it as a friend. and he says 'i love you too' and i constantly wonder if he means it in the inlove way or in the friend way.
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advice from Guest2832552 | 04-11-2007 16:00 | E : 0 | S : 0
sweetie im going to tell you what I've done all these years becuase I've been through this countless time just be honest and let him know hows u feel becuase if you don't in the end both u dn him are going to be hurt and ur not gona have a friend
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advice from Guest2937396 | 04-21-2007 16:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
I think I just love you as a friend too. I hope you let me go.
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advice from Guest2999280 | 04-26-2007 13:59 | E : 0 | S : 0
End it with them. You are being unfair to them by leading them on if you don't love them. You would be doing them a favour.
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advice from Guest3136537 | 05-17-2007 22:41 | E : 0 | S : 0
I know how you feel, I'm dealing with the same thing now. I'm just don't know how to leave him... and honestly I'm scared to...
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