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I'm only withe my fiance' because of our children. He is the biggest jerk to me and my children, and if we didn't have our children, I would wish that I had never met him. I plan on leaving him once I finish my degree and have enough money to support my children and myself.
Category Dirty Little Secret
Submitted 02-08-2007 11:13
Visited 1229 times. 72.86 Compelling Rating (rated 7 times) 74.00 Sincerity Rating (rated 5 times)
advice from Guest2552766 | 03-12-2007 14:00 | E : 1 | S : 0
you need to leave your hurting your self but more then that your hjurting you children 10 time more i watched my mom being yelled at hit and i was hurt. the way he treats you is not right and you need to get away as soon as you can
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advice from Guest2591615 | 03-16-2007 18:49 | E : 1 | S : 0
If i could put myself in your position, I would have a hard time I'm sure...trying to do anything with a jerk father. However I feel that...if you choose to play, u suffer the consequences. You have kids now and a responsibility. I highly suggest u do some counceling..majorly...and i guess if he just aint right then seperate.
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advice from Guest821011 | 02-13-2007 20:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
If he is a jerk to your children - you need to leave. No financial assistance can counteract the damage that will do to them.
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advice from Guest2409102 | 02-24-2007 05:50 | E : 0 | S : 0
For the longest time i wanted my parents to stay together even though my dad was a verbally abusive drunk and my mom was a lier and cheater. I was worried about who i would live with and not having money. They never got a divorce or seperated so i left. T i talk to them on the phone but that is it. What i am saying is make sure if you want to get out you do, as soon as you can cause you might think staying there will help your kids but in the end you and them will relize it is righ t
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advice from Guest2443312 | 02-28-2007 02:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
I stayed with my baby's daddy for 7 years.. he treated me like dirt and constantly made me feel weak and useless. he played daddy when it suited him and a complete ass all the rest of the time... as yourself this question do you love him at all? if the answer is no then leave just pack up and go if you have kids together he will have to help pay for stuff anyway... and the effect it will have on your kids will be devastating. I have met a lovely man that adores me and my child and you can to.. good luck x
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advice from Guest2458884 | 03-01-2007 17:44 | E : 0 | S : 0
To be honest I can understand the fear of staying. it would be most people's first instinct but so easily we forget the glory of child support. You won't be without help. It would be a good chance for him to spend time with his own children while babysitting them while your at school or whatever. Look, if there's something you want, there's always a way. If you wait you'll look back on wasted years and be more mad at yourself than at him.
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advice from Guest2570713 | 03-15-2007 15:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
NEVER STAY OR SETTLE LEAVE HIM TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF AND UR CHILDREN ...DONT STAY TO LONGER U STAY YOULL NEVER LEAVE
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advice from Guest2981226 | 04-25-2007 19:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
id hurry, and im sorry your in this postition <3
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advice from Guest2997849 | 04-26-2007 11:32 | E : 0 | S : 0
i have one of those,get rid of him! i am, he anal to me and my girls!!!
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advice from Guest3072507 | 05-04-2007 22:19 | E : 0 | S : 0
Good for you and I am a guy. Get out as soon as possible, the kids will be happier and so will you.
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advice from Guest3122013 | 05-14-2007 09:45 | E : 0 | S : 0
all the money in the world shouldnt be an excuse to stay with someone you and your children are at risk with. what kind of mother does that make you??
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advice from Guest2772996 | 04-05-2007 08:36 | E : 0 | S : 2
I think you're doing the right thing by waiting till you can support them by yourself. Men are so retarded and they all need to get a life! My mom is dealing with an issue with her boyfriend. He is very pysco! But she has to stay with him because she can't work because she had back surgery, so, he is the only one who has money to support us.Just keep strong, like we are, and stick up to him when you need to. but if he gets abusive then leave, no matter what the circumstances are.
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