I've fallen for my friend. Who's a girl.

We're pretty good friends and we spend quite a lot of time alone together. But not until recently did I realize I'm kind of attracted to her. Even though I shouldn't be. Because I'm a girl.

Gosh this sounds so high school but whenever her hand touches mine (she's kinda touchy) I almost jump. I can't really stop thinking about her even though I see her everyday in school.

I've never noticed these things before. What makes it worse is that I'm in a co-ed school. I can't tell her because she'll freak.

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advice from Guest3078022 | 05-05-2007 13:21 | E : 2 | S : 0
I've been there. She got over it, i didnt. I still loved her for ages afterwards and felt really pathetic. to tell you the truth i only really moved on when i got a crush on another girl.

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advice from Guest3104752 | 05-09-2007 13:44 | E : 2 | S : 0
Maybe she's "touchy" because she likes you too.

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advice from Guest3116026 | 05-12-2007 16:41 | E : 2 | S : 0
I'm in the same situation

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advice from Guest3154954 | 05-26-2007 21:25 | E : 1 | S : 0
Hey you, Guest3122645, who says she's even religious? I have the same problem, but in a different way I guess. She's my best friend, and we even pretend to be lovers sometimes. She knows I'm bi, but she doesn't know I really do like her. she's straight and it's killing me.
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advice from Guest3350875 | 07-10-2007 16:35 | E : 1 | S : 0
I know exactly what this is like.
Its not wrong if you are bi or bi curious.
Its just tough.
And when you fall for someone.
It hurts.
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advice from Guest3299055 | 06-28-2007 22:46 | E : 0 | S : 0
I am in the same boat confused about my sexuality, and might be in love with my best friend.

My best friend (same sex) and I are very intimate with each other.
We; hold hands, stay in bed for hours and cuddle, kiss each other on the cheek, tell each other "I love you". (Because we care for each other)
She loves me for being her best friend, someone she can come to with anything, and I love her for that same reason, and maybe something more&

She thinks lesbians are disgusting and has a boyfriend. When ever she talks about being with him I get angry and jealous...and act out towards her.
Later on feeling like absolute s___ because she doesnt deserve any negativity.

I am afraid that if she knew how I felt, she wouldnt want to do the usual things with me that we always do, plus I know she does not feel the same way I do about her&yet I still hope she will one day.
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advice from Guest766606 | 08-23-2007 23:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
Whats a co-ed??
And im in the same situation too, execpt my best friend has a boyfrieend and theyve been together for over a year now :(
Well as your in the same situation as me - Do you want to risk being god friends with her?? If you do whati do i just kept my feelings tomyself as shes with he rboyfriend, and i know she has no feelings for me in that way. and rather be best friends than nothin right?

Well hope i helped :D

xxx sarah xxx
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advice from Guest851888 | 09-02-2007 11:15 | E : 0 | S : 0
theres nothing wrong with being attracted to people with the same sex honestly
shell get over it
and the people below are right
maybe thats why shes touchy she likes you too xx
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advice from Guest862979 | 09-03-2007 23:09 | E : 0 | S : 0
reading this was scary coz i had the same problem for ages. i was obsessed with my best friend... ive moved on now to her brother lol
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advice from Guest900413 | 09-08-2007 21:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
ok.. no.. dont tell her, ull get over ur feelings. go kiss a boy!

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advice from Guest3112396 | 05-11-2007 13:47 | E : 1 | S : 2
it will pass, however you should try to distance yourself from her, because the closer you get (since she is straight) the more hurt you will be when you realize you cannot be with her.

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advice from Guest3116522 | 05-12-2007 20:05 | E : 0 | S : 1
hey, I'm kinda in the same boat. she's not worth it though, if she'll FREAK.

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advice from Guest3122645 | 05-14-2007 11:21 | E : 1 | S : 8
well all I know is that...like u said its wrong cus ur a girl and well its abnormal and against God and his will...think about it.... ul upset your parents youll loose a friend and god will not be there for you if he himself is agians gay relationships you loose more than just a dumb crush on a "girl"...

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