i can't help but break hearts

I feel so guilty. I had a boyfriend for 4 years and he never knew that I was talking to men online and was falling for someone else. I broke up with my boyfriend and went to see this other man. Then i did the same thing to him and left him for another man. and then i did it again! now i live with my current boyfriend but he doesn't know that i still have a thing for my most recent ex and i feel horrible for breaking every mans heart who has ever loved me. I'm sorry for being like this but it seems i am always mainly looking out for myself. i never stopped loving these men while i was with them but i learned it was possible to fall in love with more people than one at a time. does this make me a bad person? i'm really a good girlfriend, at least i try to be. i cook and i clean, i have a job, i'm a nice person and i'm told that i rock in bed! but it's just so easy to make someone interested and to get carried away. it's awful! i'm scared that i will never find a permanant, meaningful relationship because of my inability to settle down.
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advice from Guest1700011 | 12-30-2006 13:05 | E : 0 | S : 0
Life will probably teach you to be a little less self-serving - possibly when you have a child or your looks start to fade. Alot of people are as you describe - most change eventually.
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advice from Guest1712225 | 12-30-2006 21:42 | E : 0 | S : 0
Yeah, I think it makes you a bad person. But I'm more of the type that goes his whole life without being in a relationship knowing that when I find the right one it will work out great instead of going for ones I know i'm not completely attracted to. But yeah, Love is a difficult issue, it's tough to be perfect when having fun is so much fun.
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advice from Guest1722563 | 01-01-2007 11:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
My girl was exactly the same as you, she could never understand that if you are with someone, other people will still show their interest in either of you. It is how you deal with the situation, unfortunately some people deal with it more maturely than others. Everyone and i mean EVERYONE loves flattery, everyone loves to know they are still sexy/attractive. But i think maturity of mind teaches you that the grass is not always greener on the other side, what you cant have or dont have will always seem lucritive to you, but you need to assess your needs and wants and put them in to reality.
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advice from Guest1751086 | 01-01-2007 23:30 | E : 0 | S : 0
You choose to betray and destroy the trust of those who love you. You should remain single until you decide you're ready to settle down with one person instead of sliding into bed with any man who shows interest. Being a girlfriend isn't about cooking, cleaning, and a job. It's about having a good relationship with someone you trust and love. You betray all that is good about a relationship to serve your own need for attention. You're basically just a backstabber who shouldn't be trusted by anyone. Grow up.
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advice from Guest1830327 | 01-07-2007 22:25 | E : 0 | S : 0
remember we attract people like ourselves. so one day youll find a guy youd give the world for you and he will give u up or worse you might end up with nothing for trying to have everything. nothing wrong with fantasy even online flirts as long as you know who your heart realy belomgs to.
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advice from Guest2876693 | 05-05-2007 23:37 | E : 0 | S : 0
Beware of Karma.

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