I Can NEVER Tell Him

I have been with my Fiance now for about a year and a half now and we have set our wedding date for sometime next year. When we had met I was engaged to a long time boyfriend. As you guessed I left said boyfriend for my now fiance'. Even though I had broke up with my ex we would secretly hang out and now and again fool around. About two weeks into this we ended up ********. Eventually about a month into my new relationship i completly cut ties. I have never told my fiance' because I don't want to lose what we have. This is Just something i will just have to live with. I think that because I had ended the relationship with my ex so quickly after being together for almost 3 years I wasn't ready to move so fast into another love. I can never tell him.
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advice from Guest2537832 | 04-24-2007 13:43 | E : 1 | S : 0
If you still have feelings for your ex, tell your fiance. If not, all you'd accomplish by telling him is making yourself feel better and making him feel worse. Move on with your life.

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advice from Guest924085 | 11-03-2006 12:18 | E : 1 | S : 1
He doesn't need to know. It was early in your relationship and it sounds like you cut it off when you were ready to commit 100% to the new guy.
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advice from Guest1209032 | 11-19-2006 21:02 | E : 0 | S : 0
Are you ready to live with this guilt for the rest of your life? Do you think about your ex often? I bet you do and if so you better rethink tihs marriage.
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advice from Guest1211809 | 11-20-2006 04:26 | E : 0 | S : 0
Is this something that will plague you for the rest of your life? if it is not then i suggest you put the past behind you and move on with your new life. However, the only thing that concerns me is thatnow you have seen you can get away with cheating on your current boyfriend, will it happen again? perhaps it was not that you moved out of the previous relationship to quickly but the current relationship is not what you want deep down.
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advice from Guest1751086 | 01-02-2007 01:07 | E : 1 | S : 1
You need to tell him.

You can't build a good relationship on a foundation that is shattered by lies.
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