I cheat

i have a boyfriend who moved out of the country and since he moved i have slept with two guys, one of which i have a crush on and sleep with on a regular basis, the other being a drunken one night stand. The bad thing is i feel not one ounce of guilt, and i am still very in love with my boyfriend....but hes beginning to doubt my love
Category Betrayal

advice from Guest821011 | 12-28-2006 21:08 | E : 2 | S : 1
Love cannot anchor without trust.
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advice from Guest1704290 | 12-29-2006 05:08 | E : 1 | S : 0
The question to yourself is WHY? Do you feel that these other men force themselves on you? Do you feel that you have to please them? Or are your desires/emotions always ruling over your commitment to you boyfriend. This is the perfect opportunity for you to explore what you really want to do before you walk into a marriage with baggage and recentment (from you and your boyfriend). Take the time your boyfriend is away to reflect on what you want to do with YOU. Avoid all distractions at all cost. Become aware of that point when you have to make a decision between do I want to cheat or do I want to be faithful. Whichever path you take, accept it to mean it is an indication of what you truly want.
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advice from Guest1751086 | 01-01-2007 23:53 | E : 1 | S : 0
Trust is the foundation all relationships are built on... you destroyed the foundation of your relationship. It's over weather or not either of you have realized it yet. You're basically nothing more than a backstabbing traitor. If you want to be with other men, there is no problem, simply tell him, "I don't want to be in a relationship, sorry." Instead you take the selfish self centered route and become the scum of the gene-pool. Congratulations.
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advice from Guest2529092 | 03-09-2007 15:13 | E : 0 | S : 0
you love weak. if your love was string than you wouldnt even think about sleeping wih anpother man
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advice from Guest2970733 | 04-23-2007 19:37 | E : 0 | S : 0
i couldnt agree more with what one response said. W____ maybe? cheater cheater cheater. its nothing to be proud of. and the fact you dont feel guilty? yea, life has a surprise for you.

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