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I cheat with you to hurt you

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I win the confidence of beautiful 30-something year old women who tell all about what is wrong with their marriage. I then treat them like they wish their husbands would treat them and they eat it up and end up leaving their husbands because they they think they're going to be with me. And then I make myself unavailable somehow, so they're left without the husband and without this "perfect" man they left their husband for...and they never find someone as good again. I ruin their outlook...there are quite a few women who I've done this to who, years later are still trying to find a guy as good as the one they left their husband for (or at least the illusion of him). Why do I do this? Because I lost my wife, the woman I loved and mother of my child to this exact thing...aka she cheated on me with the "perfect man" rather being faithful to the man who devoted his life to her...any woman who quits her marriage for the "dream lover" deserves misery...I know this makes me a bastard which is why I keep it a secret
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Submitted 02-23-2007 09:39
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advice from Guest821011 | 03-12-2007 21:10 | E : 1 | S : 0
Shame on you if it is true, but honestly this sounds more like fantasy than reality. Most people, even if cruel, would not be industrious enough to carry this through time and again with the motivation being what you have described.
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advice from Guest2558699 | 03-13-2007 13:05 | E : 1 | S : 0
your delaying your own happiness and true love by doing this. Get over it, and move on. yes their are creeps in the world, yes it hurt when you got cheated on, but try to love like youve never been hurt. There are still many many faithful women out there. You have to trust and let your guard down to find what you really want deep down.
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advice from Guest2951498 | 04-22-2007 00:08 | E : 1 | S : 0
Nothing is ever going to make you feel any better, least of all this. Get some counseling, buddy, and move on. Life is short and we've all been hurt. Learn how to deal with it and try to find some happiness with what you have left.

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advice from Guest2427127 | 03-13-2007 00:01 | E : 0 | S : 0
How do you know they are trying to find the right guy years later?
Maybe you should focus on your kid. What's he/she going to think about all the girlfriends you have?

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advice from Guest2691060 | 03-28-2007 01:58 | E : 0 | S : 0
you have become the man that your wife left you for. congratulations on your achievement
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advice from Guest2806830 | 04-13-2007 06:49 | E : 0 | S : 0
Even though its messed up, they deserve it to some point. any woman that would cheat on her husband is dirt.Im a woman myself 24 yrs old and I would never cheta on my husband because they are suppose to be that 'Dreamguy'. Have fun playing them =) as long as you dont cut your own love life short. There are woman out there that would never cheat..look for her..your hurt will go away with time.

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advice from Guest2866132 | 04-14-2007 19:43 | E : 0 | S : 0
Nothing

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advice from Guest2855661 | 04-14-2007 22:33 | E : 0 | S : 0
I think you're a p____.

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advice from Guest3275889 | 06-23-2007 10:57 | E : 0 | S : 0
why would you want to be like the person that your wife betrayed you for?
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advice from Guest1977331 | 02-08-2008 06:21 | E : 0 | S : 0
You are only making things worse for yourself dumbass!
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advice from Guest2552840 | 03-13-2007 08:20 | E : 0 | S : 1
It has to stop somewhere.
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