I cheated with... my...

I cheated with... my... cousin! I KNOW! I KNOW! It's sick, but I LOVE HIM!!! Actually our "affair" has been going on for 2 years and NO ONE in our family knows. He's married, I'm not, but I also feel stupid because he's "getting" something out of it. Me, all I get is the leftovers!!!
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advice from Guest2552715 | 03-12-2007 13:56 | E : 0 | S : 0
This is wrong on so many levels - if you really love him than it's easy, you simply say - tell your wife or I will. You can't both live in shadows for the rest of your life, your only option is to say, us versus the world - come out to the family and declare your feelings for one another - in the open; otherwise you're in for a long, miserable affair that will end up with him having kids and you waiting by the phone for the next booty call.
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advice from Guest2552840 | 03-13-2007 08:23 | E : 0 | S : 0
I've had a crush on my cousin before, I'm not sure if i still do. it was mutual i know, we were young be old enough to know better.. We lived in different statse and rarely saw each other, so when we did it was more of a friendship basis.. Damned by blood.
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advice from Guest3225884 | 06-11-2007 16:14 | E : 0 | S : 0
Guest 2521151 has the stupidest advice i have ever her, I mean i aggree with him about how you can't help who you fall in love with, but he's married, I mean,does he have childeren, what if somthing happens, what if somone finds out. I think you should worry about the marrage, know matter how badly it may break your heart.
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advice from Guest1573988 | 11-27-2007 11:10 | E : 0 | S : 0
About a couple years ago i wouldn't understand but my boyfriend had cheated on me with his aunt so i sort of understand not saying it was right or anything. If you want to be with your Cousin than tell him , and sit down and talk to him about it , i mean no one can stop you from loving someone no matter what or who the situation/person is . If he married that ask him to leave his wife, it is not right for him to have two people he is sleeping with when you holding out for just him it's not right and if he won't leave her that it isn't ment to be but don't lower yourself because of love, and if he says he will leave her don't have sex until he does,and the both of you can tell your family sooner or later they will accepted
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advice from Guest2521151 | 03-08-2007 17:28 | E : 1 | S : 2
As sick as it might sound to people. I don't think you can help whom you fall in love with.

As for him being married.. thats a completely other issue.

But it sounds like what you are most concerned about. Is the fact that he is your cousin.

My advice. Do some digging on president roosevelt and his wife. And you might find something very interesting about their relationship to each other. ;)

(if it feels good. why not do it?)
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advice from Guest2535264 | 03-10-2007 12:22 | E : 0 | S : 1
aside from the fact that its incest- its adultery, and that is not acceptable.
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advice from Guest2573332 | 03-14-2007 23:55 | E : 0 | S : 1
I have a crush on my second cousin, he is so hot. I think about being with him, but i know its not possible.
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advice from Guest2624097 | 03-20-2007 09:17 | E : 0 | S : 1
I'm Sorry but you need help. . . Don't take advice from the previous person. "if it feels good, why not?" You can find someone else. Not your cousin. . .
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